If I saw those two things, I wouldn't like it either - particularly the part about not seeing his child. I think, based on that alone, I would investigate more but really that would be a deal breaker for me.
Hello and welcome to our board! I would find out more about his daughter. That would be a deal breaker for me. If he and his ex do not have kids I don't see any reason to still be in contact. Is this ex the mother of his daughter? Stephanie
That wouldn't sit well with me either. Particularly the part about not seeing his child, but he hangs out with his ex regularly?! Where is the daughter? Why doesn't he see her?
I hope you get the answers you're looking for. Sorry I'm not helpful, but wanted to chime in I agree with you. These are valid things to wonder about and red flags deserving attention. Keep us posted! and WELCOME!
So he has a daughter that he never sees or talks about and he has a "friendship" with an ex and they don't have kids? Uh, that would be a big old NEXT for me. Seriously, you have some major red flags flying here. I honestly can't imagine what would be a legitimate reason to have a child that you have nothing to do with. Stephanie
If I saw those two things, I wouldn't like it either - particularly the part about not seeing his child. I think, based on that alone, I would investigate more but really that would be a deal breaker for me.
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Stephanie
That wouldn't sit well with me either. Particularly the part about not seeing his child, but he hangs out with his ex regularly?! Where is the daughter? Why doesn't he see her?
I hope you get the answers you're looking for. Sorry I'm not helpful, but wanted to chime in I agree with you. These are valid things to wonder about and red flags deserving attention. Keep us posted! and WELCOME!
Stephanie