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Registered: 06-30-2008
my story.........
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 10:19am
hi everyone, just browsing thru the
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 10:24am

If I saw those two things, I wouldn't like it either - particularly the part about not seeing his child. I think, based on that alone, I would investigate more but really that would be a deal breaker for me.

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 12:31pm
Hello and welcome to our board! I would find out more about his daughter. That would be a deal breaker for me. If he and his ex do not have kids I don't see any reason to still be in contact. Is this ex the mother of his daughter?
Stephanie
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Registered: 06-30-2008
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 2:03pm
no she is not the mother of his daugher.... they were together for 4 years and supposely went thru alot.
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Registered: 10-24-2006
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 2:13pm

That wouldn't sit well with me either. Particularly the part about not seeing his child, but he hangs out with his ex regularly?! Where is the daughter? Why doesn't he see her?


I hope you get the answers you're looking for. Sorry I'm not helpful, but wanted to chime in I agree with you. These are valid things to wonder about and red flags deserving attention. Keep us posted! and WELCOME!

 

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 2:18pm
So he has a daughter that he never sees or talks about and he has a "friendship" with an ex and they don't have kids? Uh, that would be a big old NEXT for me. Seriously, you have some major red flags flying here. I honestly can't imagine what would be a legitimate reason to have a child that you have nothing to do with.
Stephanie