My update and new image pic....

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My update and new image pic....
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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 2:14pm

Remember Church guy? I think I named him Choir Boy. We are still in contact. I had two dates with him (one last Friday night), but doubt I will have a third. Nothing bad to say about him, in regards to how he treats me, but....



  • He is VERY impatient and that was one of the reasons his wife left. It seems if things are not quick enough for him, he tends to speak in a way that makes you feel dumb. That his how he said his wife explained it to him. Unfortunately, I can see that. Nothing that he did to me, but you know, how you can just tell? So that to me was the number one no-no indicator
  • He talks WAY to loud. He has a booming voice and I don't like that
  • and last but not least, his laugh is AWFUL! He has the worst loud laugh and it makes me cringe.

We dated only twice in probably 6 weeks, but I know he wants to see me again soon. I don't know how to say we don't fit. I think I'll just turn down a couple of invitations and hope he gets the hint. His schedule with his business is way to busy anyways. If I HAD been interested, I would have had to wait weeks to even see him.


I've had quite a few offers to go out, but I haven't bitten yet. Not sure I want to. I feel so disinterested. I am much happier at home with my children. And when I'm out, like last weekend, I want to get home as quick as possible to be with them. I guess I missed them much more then I thought when they went to Europe. My oldest is having some teenage trouble and my youngest needs a lot of "mommy and me"

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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 2:56pm

It sounds like you're making all the right choices!


I think either not accepting invites, or simply telling him you're not feeling a connection is a smart choice, since there are already so many things you don't like about him.


As for the children- I think most of us relish our "kid" time- until we are sick of it.


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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 3:04pm

No, it is definitely not the "it" factor, but I am not looking anyway and

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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 5:06pm

Good for you for knowing what you want in life right now.

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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 6:56pm
Everything sounds great Kat!
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Thu, 09-20-2007 - 8:19am
Congrats on your job and school accomplishments. You are getting ahead and that is great. Hugs to you and the girls and more time with them. Kids grow up TOO fast for sure. Glad to see that you are putting YOU first with the men - if you don't like "what is in it for you" then it is good to boot them. I think that is a much better position than only concentrating on trying to catch them and please them. YOU are in control. BRAVO!! And yes we want to see more pix of the new doo. I bet you look killer in your office garb!! Wall Street Woman!! Keep us posted!!
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Thu, 09-20-2007 - 2:50pm

Hey Cat.

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Thu, 09-20-2007 - 7:20pm

~Pacific~