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| Wed, 02-13-2008 - 7:23pm |
Here they are...the two loves of my life.
I couldn't get any pics of the fish...they're shy, lol.
DD and Blue Eyes.. recent pics
| Wed, 02-13-2008 - 7:23pm |
Here they are...the two loves of my life.
I couldn't get any pics of the fish...they're shy, lol.
DD and Blue Eyes.. recent pics
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It's nice of you to say I am a great woman to have in his life and he is lucky- although I am not flawless. But I am working on myself :o)
You could be very, very right. It could that he found someone who really loves him and sees him thoroughly and has not walked away..and he feels safe to "be him" and does not fear I will leave...therefore in that sense I enable his drinking.
I suppose that if I left him he would either sober up, or he would continue drinking but even more and find a woman who will totally enable him and probably even drink with him. The latter would kill me but I know this is possible. Or what would really hurt- he sobers up AND THEN finds someone else and she would get to experience the wonderful
Thank you- and to all.
I feel good to have this space to have said things and know I am supported and even if I need a good kick in the butt- I appreciate everyone's input.
I will keep you all posted..
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