My Valentines

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Registered: 08-08-2007
My Valentines
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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 7:23pm

Here they are...the two loves of my life.


I couldn't get any pics of the fish...they're shy, lol.


DD and Blue Eyes.. recent pics


~Pacific~

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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: pacific_sun
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 2:44pm

~Pacific~
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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: pacific_sun
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 2:53pm
You are smart and have a good head on your shoulders - and at the same time you are positive and sweet - so I know you will do the right thing and are handling it all as best as you can. Good luck and keep us posted!! We wish the best for all of you. Fingers are crossed!
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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: pacific_sun
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 2:54pm

It's nice of you to say I am a great woman to have in his life and he is lucky- although I am not flawless. But I am working on myself :o)


You could be very, very right. It could that he found someone who really loves him and sees him thoroughly and has not walked away..and he feels safe to "be him" and does not fear I will leave...therefore in that sense I enable his drinking.


I suppose that if I left him he would either sober up, or he would continue drinking but even more and find a woman who will totally enable him and probably even drink with him. The latter would kill me but I know this is possible. Or what would really hurt- he sobers up AND THEN finds someone else and she would get to experience the wonderful

~Pacific~
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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: pacific_sun
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 2:59pm
I'm sorry you are finding your relationship with BE in the same circumstances again. You have a good head on your shoulders and I know you will do what is best for you and your DD.
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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: pacific_sun
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 2:59pm

Thank you- and to all.


I feel good to have this space to have said things and know I am supported and even if I need a good kick in the butt- I appreciate everyone's input.


I will keep you all posted..


~Pacific~
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Registered: 04-08-2003
In reply to: pacific_sun
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 6:39pm
Did you guys make up yesterday?

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