Need help

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Registered: 12-01-2007
Need help
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Sat, 12-01-2007 - 8:55pm

I am a 29 year old single mommy of 2, ages 10 and 8.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: wondrous_mommy
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 10:35am
Ok, let me make sure I have this..............you are uprooting your children, changing their lives dramatically, to move to a town you swore you never would again to be with a man who has already hurt you a few times and are afraid to tell your family about him???
 
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Registered: 11-03-2003
In reply to: wondrous_mommy
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 10:47am

Personally, if he had broken my heart before many times in the past, and since moving in with him is such a huge (and not entirely positive) change for

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: wondrous_mommy
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 5:09pm

Is the REAL reason you're scared to tell everyone because you KNOW in your heart this is not a good relationship?


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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: wondrous_mommy
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 7:29am

I agree with Soonee and everyone here. I would not move in with him. I know you have always liked him - but unfortunately that is not the only ingredient necessary for a leap like the one you are making.

He has to be more than your lover - he has to want to be an important contribution to your kids and your life.