Need input....situation is aggravating..

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Registered: 05-02-2000
Need input....situation is aggravating..
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 12:21am

Hello all, I am single mom (going through divorce/have 2 month old ds from dh) (darn hubby). Here is my dilema. I met a very nice man through a single parents website. We have chatted on the phone and have sent numerous e-mails, he sent a lot in the beginning of our talking and then I have sent more in the past months. I feel like this guy is just jerking me around. I understand I should not rush a romance, which isn't really what I want right now. I would like to have a friend male or female doesn't matter to just talk to, etc. Well, he says he is always there for me. But, he never initiates conversation...I always do. It hurts my feelings. I am ready to just tell him off;but, then I feel bad because he has been there for me when I was pregnant, etc. I have just talked to him via e-mail and on the phone, never met him. He is a widower with two small boys and lives states away from me. I have also seen pictures of him;but, never pictures of his children. I sometimes think he isn't who he says he is? Anyone else ever feel just disgusted with a situation?

Thanks for letting me vent!

:)

C

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 12:39am

Hi and welcome!


You know, sometimes people come into our lives to teach us something about ourselves and once that purpose is done, they are no longer needed so they just drift away.


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