Need a kind way of saying ....

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Registered: 10-18-2003
Need a kind way of saying ....
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Wed, 09-22-2004 - 11:50pm

I'm not interested.


I approached a very nice man a week or so ago, and let him know I was interested in him.

Kim

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 12:38am

Well, I told Mr. Pushy when he asked me out




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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 6:54am
ITA. :) I have a few that I was SO thankful didn't call again. And that was after a very pleasant date too - sometimes the spark isn't there ya know?

L

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 10:43am
Are you sure that you want to just blow him off? He's attractive, happy, etc. So exactly why aren't you interested? Maybe you could just keep it VERY CASUAL dating. Tell him you are dating other people, but you thought he was very nice and would like to see him every so often. Who knows? Maybe you'll see it differetnly, more positively down the line.

But if you are totally adamant about not seeing him, then don't do what I do! LOL EVer see the movie " How to get rid of a guy in 10 days?" Mine is actually the same but my headline states: "How to get rid of a guy under 21 days!" I actually test them out. See how much stress they can handle from a woman. It's awful, but I find it weeds out the weaklings. LOL So, really don't take that advice.


My REAL ADVICE would be " I think your a very nice man, and I thought I was ready to date, but I don't think I am afterall. Take care." Phone call will do.

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 9:45pm
Has he been calling you and asking you out?

The "right"thing to do is explain how you feel in a nice way. But most men don't really want to hear that you don't find them "bedroom material" - and that is what you really mean by no chemistry.

I usually duck out of the way IF they call and I explain that I am too busy for dating right now. That saves their ego and keeps it positive.