Need more time?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2008
Need more time?
11
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 1:02pm

Hi all. This might be a more general dating situation, but since it involves a single mom I figured this was the right place. I need a woman's perspective on my situation (or more specifically, a single mom's). It's rather long, so please bear with me.


Backstory: 3 years ago. I was 27, she 29. Her girls were 12 and 2. We had met a year prior and had sporadic interaction (she was engaged). Now she was single and we started to talk more and go out now and then. She had been with him for 6 years, so she was in no rush to jump into anything. We kept things friendly. I still dated but didn't have much luck. She didn't date at all. This went on for 9 months or so. At this point she started sending me signals she was ready for more, but

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: james728
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 6:08pm

Sorry it didnt work out - & it seems like she wasnt a perfect match for you if you are in disagreement w/ how she began this new relationship so quickly & he is so involved in her (& her kids) life ... so its probably better off seeings that you have different ideas about how the relationship shoudl work anyway.


Keep your eyes open, you just never know when the next one may come along!

Photobucket

Pages