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| Tue, 11-27-2007 - 1:10am |
I am new to posting on here, although I have read your posts for some time.
| Tue, 11-27-2007 - 1:10am |
I am new to posting on here, although I have read your posts for some time.
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I wouldn't suggest keeping a date private so much that when you get engaged, you spring him on your kids as "This is so-and-so... and we're getting married"
I agree!
Good Lord, Child - where DOES this wisdom come from???
QueenBun
***standing ovation for Shimps post...****
Very well said!!!
Dang you guys.... I didn't think that post was THAT good! lol
But I'm glad it DID pass along the right kind of wisdom (me? wisdom?!?? ha!) on the when-to-meet-the-kids situation. But just know that I've learned that wisdom the hard way- by having a BF post-divorce where we did kind of have nearly every date as a kid-filled date (go to the park, then out to dinner, all together- and then him being WITH us as I put the kids to bed)... and everyone getting attached like a little family. It was nice, but yet it was such the mistake! Especially to do it before there was any sort of permanent commitment in place. Stupid!!!! So that "wisdom" of mine... well, it's still new and undented. ;-)
So with Hiker- it just seems easy to do it the way we are... because I know NOT to do it the insta-family way! And I'm glad he isn't pushing for the inst-family thing, either!
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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