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| Mon, 10-10-2005 - 4:29pm |
im beyond disgusted. why is it that all around me i see couples and yet i canteven get a guy to take me to a %$#@!*& movie? I'm beautiful, model shaped, smart, im not a loser i have a job and a car and all that. what is it about guys that makes them ignore you if they cant hit or if they can, not take you anywhere and look at you like you're crazy for expecting more than a quick nut. and then if you let them hit, they wanna share their sperm, like i dont have enuff kids. and why wont they be honest and just say they dont take chicks with kids seriously and they see us as sex toys instead of faking and lying and grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! im very disgusted and not sure how to fix this. im sick of having to explain why some people dont have daddies and why mommy has no boyfriend and nobody has married me yet and trying to deal with psycho midgets alone every day.
im stopping at home depot on the way home from work to buy a rope. i got a chair in the dining room.

I think we all have days like this. And you do sound like you have had enough of them.
But part of the biggest problem is what is in your head. If you let yourself slip into the negative then you will only see negative. I think you have to work more on getting okay with being alone and with the fact that some men do only want sex.
Not everyone who is married is so happy, either. We all have to learn to be happy with what we have.
We do welcome you and your stories - feel free to vent. I am sure there are others here who feel the same way you do. Being single is tough never mind having to be a single mom.
I know the feeling.
Hi,
It is tough being a single parent and dating. I don't think anyone thought this "is going to be easy". It's one of the hardest yet most rewarding things you'll ever do!
I don't know your situation NOR will I try to say I do. However, I think one of the most positive experiences you can give yourself is to not fixate on having someone in your life but to love your life, its quirky features and all, then maybe you and someone can look at something on the same field.
One of my favorite things that I read, in terms of relationships, is creating (in yourself) the ability to discern if something will work for you and all....involved or not. This is very hard and very different for each of us.
Being a single parent is one of the hardest things I've ever done and I'm sure you too! Take pride in that! I hope you do and know you are not the only one out there with these types of nights...It can get tough. Please remind yourself again and again you are doing something that is amazing.
Hugs to you!
S~
I totally understand what you're feeling.
But when you need another person to fill that void, and then you find that person, the relationship will have a harder time suceeding because you need them to give you attention.