Never said college style was Ivy League.

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 2:14pm

Ewww. OK so i updated that college style had started trying to communicate again and kept slipping in cheesy innuendos in his emails/phone messages...well I know that FP and i have cooled off majorly, sort of on hiatus i guess and its working for me. Anyway, i still wouldn't feel right starting something up with anyone right out of self respect and respect for FP. Would feel like cheating if that makes sense...anyway CS (college style) sends me an email...feel free to wretch at will...Let me add something before hand - i have been having MAJOR issues with ym wrist and hand and finally broke down and went to the dr. last week and im on an antiinflamitory (i hate taking anything other than the occasional excedrin and nightly dose of advil pm) Seems i may have tendinitis or arthritis. Before running the entire blood work for the second we are scheduling an mri first to rule out the tendinitis. SO CS knew i had a dr. appt from an email asking me to have a drink and i declined "due to previous apt. with dr" I have no backbone when it comes to turning someone down. So

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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 7:58pm

Ugh- no thanks!


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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 8:41pm
I think this is a golden opportunity for you to put an end to communication with CS - you surely don't need someone telling you things like that - if you do want to be friends then you do need a huge dose of boundary setting for what you want to hear. Maybe he can be the practice doofus?
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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 8:48am

Hi A,,,its shooting pains and cramps from my elbow to the tips of my index and middle fingers. Severe cramping in my hand. Originally thought it might be carple tunnel (sp?) but i dont have any of those signs...like pins and needles and it going numb at night. No numbness in my finger tips...just cramping in my hand to my elbow with sharp pains all the way down my arm...im really thinking tendinitis over anything else...crappy thing is theres nothing to do about it excpet rest it which means no typing for a bit.I told my boss and she just looked at me and said yeah thats not gonna happen...GEE THANKS! LOL My best advise get it looked at.


Ive ignored the rest of CS's emails and calls...will do so from now on. Maybe im just really scorned and others might not think to much of it but it just came off as gross to me. And quite selfish!

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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 9:59am

Ive ignored the rest of CS's emails and calls...will do so from now on. Maybe im just really scorned and others might not think to much of it but it just came off as gross to me. And quite selfish!


Yay, Mom-Star!!! I think some sexual innuendo is fun and flirty and cute within a relationship, but when you're just barely dating or barely know each other... those comments are just icky and creepy! Uncalled for and rude!

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 10:19am
Thanks Shrimpy...Was starting to think i was just becoming way to PRUDE. But I agree on it being fun when in the right situation...but for now its just rude
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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 10:23am
Perfect definition!
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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 10:37am

You’re right.

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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 11:05am

Hey Moon,


Its better, other than my aching wrist and hand. I dropped DD off this morning to CP for her visit and she wouldnt come around from behind me. She just clung to my leg and kept saying no mommy i no want to see him...WTF does that mean? She was VERY excited this morning when i told her she was going and she didnt want to when she saw him. He did get his haircut and im thinking since he hasnt really seen her for more than an hour in weeks she could be unsure of him. I make it a point of not talking negatively about him in her presence. He pretended he was crying and i said "ohh DD daddys sad hes missed you" and she just kept saying no mommy. Then he said do you want to go see JayJay (one of the cats i adopted for his son) and she looked at him and i said yeah and you can go see (stepbrother) and TBH is there then she went to him but onyl after i mentioned the other two. Its heart breaking and if hes not there today when i pick her up I will call him tomorrow and explain to him its imperative (ill have to use a smaller word for him though)

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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 11:47am

Continue with your approach with CP.

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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 12:06pm

Man it IS heartbreaking when I read about you women's ex's and how they are not fathers to their children.


I love the words and names kids make up Binkerbell :-D...


Mark





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