New communication on EH.. etc
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New communication on EH.. etc
| Sun, 06-22-2008 - 10:52am |
Started a new communication on EH.... decent picture.. cute but not hot... 29 yr... single father of two... his children live with him... i hope i get a date this time...
Man, i'm frustrated because i think Real Estate guy was scared off when i told him i have 5 children.. it seems most decent guys get scared off by that and the ones only looking for sex dont' care.... and sure that's why sometimes i go for the FWB situation too... i just don't want the drama of a relationship. then again Real Estate Guy never posted a new picture so... i'm gonna NEXT him.
honestly,

i think Real Estate guy was scared off when i told him i have 5 children
You only write about doing stuff with your older kids on occasional weekends (and I'm remembering some posts about your first Ex) so I'm thinking you
"I don't think it's the fact that you've given birth five times, but rather the idea of moving into a household with a family of six people, that is intimidating."
Good point - I bet there has to be a succinct way of communicating how many you have living with you now versus just the total? Like - 3 are still with me and 2 are grown and with their father? Plus I think that a guy is either okay with kids or not okay with kids - I don't think it is a matter of how many. I think if he was not okay with them and you said 5 then he would bolt. And that is okay - because we do want someone who enjoys kids and families and all of the activities. One of the things I liked about KM is that he grew up in a large family and he loved having people around him and genuinely disliked living alone - I think he really saw children as a bonus.
yah, i do specify that only 3 live with me..... but somehow i don't think that comes across too positively either because then it comes out that i've been married twice.. eeps.... But i agree either they will have a problem or they won't.... I wasn't too interestd in Real Estate Guy... just noticed how he dropped off after that conversation.. his response was that he didn't have children of his own but loves spending time with his niece...
i was at the pool saturday and a guy asked in disbelief.. those are all your children... (i had all five with me)... i said yes... I'm proud of them, don't get me wrong.... They are all beautiful, creative and smart.... And i know that i don't look like i've had five kids... My dd15 told me yesterday that i look 23 when wearing a baseball cap... I said, then i'll wear one more often... 23 will be my new age on my next birthday... i'll let you know how many believe me.. lol....