New to the dating game again & confused

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Registered: 05-01-2008
New to the dating game again & confused
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Sat, 05-03-2008 - 10:50am

So my husband and I were marred for 5 years and have twin daughters a year old.

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Sat, 05-03-2008 - 6:25pm

I think you answered your own question. Look at how you wrote about Guy 1. He sees you in a sexual way and not as a friend or companion. He makes sure he gets his physical needs met first. Guy 2 sees you as a friend and companion first. He understands you responsibilities as a parent and respects those bounderies. Good relationships always form from good friendships. If you dont start out as friends then you have nothing to base your relationship on. A man who moves forward to a physical relationship too fast is showing you a huge red flag. Take the warning. Take it from someone who is much older and has been there.


Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Sun, 05-04-2008 - 12:56am

Welcome to the board!


Where do you go from here?


Well, honey- you move on.


Photobucket
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Sun, 05-04-2008 - 9:44am

Yeah- what Alison said!!!!


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Sun, 05-04-2008 - 10:53am

I think that as long as you desire the Player, there won't be room for a relationship with BestBud to develop.