New with a few questions...

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Registered: 12-27-2006
New with a few questions...
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 6:44pm

Hoping someone has some good opinions for me with this.


I met a nice man online in January, (we have so much in common), and did the email thing, then we moved on to the phone calls. We finally met face to face in February (we live 3 miles from each other)so that worked out for us. I have 2 children(17d and 9s) they are with me part time. He has 1 child(11s) who is with him 100%. Our dating(or lack there of...according to MY friends) is pretty unconventional. We talk daily 45-60 min conversations sometimes 2x a day and a few nights a week I go over to hang out with him. We have become intimate and I never spent the night until he asked me to stay(it's been 3 x now) Until last night I had only met his son with

~Karen
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 11:01am

I agree that friends are not always right.... and that you have to do what feels right to you....


Welcome to the board and hope you stick around!


Loonybunny

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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 11:22am

Hi Tiny, and welcome to the board!


Sometimes friends, while meaning to be helpful, can be meddlesom.

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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 1:22pm
Thanks, my girlfriend called me this morning and asked if I "thought" about what was said. I decided to tell her that it'd be best if we didn't talk about my relationships as it causes too much tension and worry for them and I wanted them to have 1 less thing to worry about.
~~Tiny

~Karen
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 1:27pm

Thanks for the welcome. Not sure if you read my other post but I asked my(I'll call him mcdad) if this was a FWB type thing. No answer yet. I was perfectly happy living with my head buried in the sand...but now....I'm walking around confused.....I'll keep you posted.


I know he's lucky, I'm a wonderful person. Insde and out....I was lucky too, though..he's a wonderful man.....

~~Tiny

~Karen
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 2:20pm

I did read your other post.

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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 6:41pm
Hey guys, what does FWB stand for? Ta :o)

 



Tracy

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 6:43pm
"Friends With Benefits"
~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 6:56pm
LOL Thanks Pacific!

 



Tracy

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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 7:11pm

How about this one..it was a quote from my girlfriend yesterday:


"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"


~Karen
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 7:27pm

<<"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?>>

Lol love it! The thing is I think sometimes all you want is free milk, & sometimes the cow is happy as she is ;o)

 



Tracy