New with a few questions...

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Registered: 12-27-2006
New with a few questions...
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 6:44pm

Hoping someone has some good opinions for me with this.


I met a nice man online in January, (we have so much in common), and did the email thing, then we moved on to the phone calls. We finally met face to face in February (we live 3 miles from each other)so that worked out for us. I have 2 children(17d and 9s) they are with me part time. He has 1 child(11s) who is with him 100%. Our dating(or lack there of...according to MY friends) is pretty unconventional. We talk daily 45-60 min conversations sometimes 2x a day and a few nights a week I go over to hang out with him. We have become intimate and I never spent the night until he asked me to stay(it's been 3 x now) Until last night I had only met his son with

~Karen
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 7:56pm

Or the rather crude corollary:

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 8:22pm

"Why buy the pig, when you can get the sausage anytime you want it?"


LOVE IT!!!!!


Women can enjoy playing the field as well..... ;-)

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 9:16pm

LOL!!!!!!!!!

There certainly is a flip side to THAT saying these days!

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 9:29pm

"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"


And then I counter that with "Why buy the pig when you can get the sausage for free?" lol


Both are just as crude... and both can be just as wrong in describing anyone's relationship. Your relationship is YOUR OWN, and as long as both of you are good with how it is, then it's nobody's business or their place to judge (by their standards/expectations).


I hope you hear back from him soon! I'm curious what a man would say to a question like that, asked that directly!


~shrimpy

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 9:31pm

Whoops- that's what I get when I leave a page up for more than an hour- and then reply without checking OTHER replies that have come in!!!


You beat me to the sausage, Soonee!!!!!!! lol


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:13pm

You beat me to the sausage, Soonee!!!!!!! lol


ROFL!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:24pm

*I* am gonna beat you ALL to the sausage .... ;)

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Registered: 12-27-2006
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:37pm
hmmm...interesting.....LOL...you all are fabulous people!!!

~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?

~Karen
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:38pm

You girls are cracking me up big time....


all this talk about sausage.. TG is gonna get lucky tonight *blushing*


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Registered: 12-27-2006
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:43pm
LMBO!!!!!

~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?

~Karen
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