New Guy In The Picture......Don't Know
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New Guy In The Picture......Don't Know
| Tue, 10-28-2008 - 10:45am |
How to deal with every situation we have. He has been a great guy so far. We have been talking on myspace for a little over a month and the weekend before last we met at a movie theater for the first time. Everything was great we went out to eat and then saw a movie and the movie ended at 9:15 but we stayed in the parking lot in his truck talking until like 10:45. It doesn't bother him that I'm pregnant and that its not by him.


So the timing is a month on MySpace (from mid-Sep to mid-Oct) talking online then meet 2 weekends ago and been seeing each other for less than 2 weeks?
I think to expect to have such closeness and intimacy in that period of time may be unrealistic.
Welcome to our board, Kimberly!
Congratulations on your pregnancy :o) Do you have other children as well?
Its hard to say what is going on with your new love interest. It may really be too soon to tell. I know that when you talk and email regularly it feels like you have developed a deep connection already. Maybe you need more time to spend together to really tell.
But it sounds to me that he is uncertain as of yet, because he is not showing a lot of attention or affection in public, around friends, or family. If you are looking for more certainty, you might not get that from him.
This truly is only my two cents.. I think that being pregnant in will be more difficult to date. Because there is the whole element of the baby to be in the picture which, as should be, the main focus of your life. Take care of yourself and IF a man falls into the picture who really cares about you and your baby then that is great. But otherwise just focus on you and your health right now.
Men will always be there! No hurry! Take care of you and baby!!
Thanks for the advice. This is my first child and I'm really nervous about it and about the whole dating thing too. I just don't know how to handle things right now.