New guy is really good

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Registered: 06-30-2003
New guy is really good
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Mon, 12-27-2004 - 12:25pm

I've been dating this new guy for about a month now. Things couldn't be better and I'm so relieved and just really happy. We're so evenly matched and he's crazy about me. I've forgotten all about my jerky ex boyfriend (commitmentphobe) and I feel good about this new guy.

This relationship has been a surprise that came out of nowhere. To anyone that's in between boyfriends, I say keep the faith and wait for a man who's really into you. They are out there. I can't believe I wasted 7 months on my last boyfriend...who only called me every other day and saw me every other weekend (and never saw me during the week).

This new guy calls me everyday because he wants to. He sends me a daily email because he wants to. He sees me two times a week because he can't help but see me. The feeling is mutual, comfortable, and just great.

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Mon, 12-27-2004 - 12:38pm

Awww sounds heavenly!! Congratulations!!

MB

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Mon, 12-27-2004 - 2:15pm

EXCELLENT!!!!


I am SO very glad to hear you've found someone who WANTS to commit to you and is enjoying the intimacy! This is great news. Where did you meet him? What things do you have in common that you go out to do?

Becky

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 2:57pm
An online dating site facilitated our initial contact, but we've sort of known each other for a lot longer. We rode the train together for about 4 yrs and we know some of the same people. We like taking walks, playing Trivial Pursuit, playing cards, and whatever else we can think to do.
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Registered: 05-05-2004
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 3:29pm

Congrats to you -- he does sound wonderful. Your story gives people like me hope. I guess you just have to be patient and wait for the right one to come along. Best of luck to you.

Donna

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 6:01pm

Amen, sister!! This story just keeps getting better!! You have us all on the edge of our seats. And you have given us hope!!

How neat that you used to ride the train together for so long!!

KEEP US POSTED!!

:-)

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 7:12pm
Thanks West and Donna. This romance caught me completely by surprise. I'll let you know if things get better or whimpers out.
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Registered: 08-09-2004
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 8:06pm
That's great! Things have been pretty similiar with my new guy, with the exception of the Christmas confusion! :) I hope things continue to go so well!
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Registered: 12-14-2004
Wed, 12-29-2004 - 2:31pm
Sounds great.........the initial is always the best feeling anyway, I think. I hope things work out & thanks for giving us hope. I agree, we all need to feel like they want to be with us & they want to call us. I always remember what I read one day, "The death of a catapillar is the Life of a Butterfly."