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| Tue, 04-22-2008 - 3:02pm |
Ok first off my name is casey im a 27 year old sahm of 3 sons rusty is 8 dustin is 5 and conner is 7 weeks .. rustys father was a good guy that made a bad choice to push me down and almost make me miscarry when he got drunk so i left him dustins father was


Welcome! You do have your hands full.
About the 49 year old. Although you do say you love him, I think you have to take a step back and love yourself more. If he is fine for a few days and then says you are too young the other days then that is what he thinks. Is that really what you want? You cannot change the way he thinks.
If I was you I would take a break from him and just take care of you and the boys and get strong on my own - so then I would be picky - the next one has to prove himself over time and love you just the way you are! You certainly deserve that after all you have been through.
I would drop the 49 yr-old, too. He waffles between wanting you and then saying you're too young. So which is it??!? I'd just stay clear. ESPECIALLY because he works with your ex. That's just too much drama-potential there!
Also... just HOW in the world are you getting out to date with a 7-week old baby?!?! I'd be shutting all the men OUT and snuggling in with my little boys instead!!!! Hands down!!!
~shrimpy, sometimes too busy to date, even WITHOUT a little newborn
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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(4/22/2008 5:26:44 PM): no your not the only one that tells me that they feel that way about me ok but ,,,,,,,,,,4/22/2008 5:32:44 PM): you don,t want to be one of my women do you ,,(4/22/2008 5:43:46 PM): if i sleep with you you are never gonna get over it,,,,(4/22/2008 5:43:01 PM): you are young girl,( his fav saying ) ,,,,,
gonna erase the names this was part of the convo to ME (4/22/2008 6:06:53 PM): Im gonna just say ok .. you seem like you dont want nothing from me anyway .. not trying to be mean just impression
HIS REPLY(4/22/2008 6:07:44 PM): no i,am just trying not to be mean to you and get your hopes up ......... IF YOU SEEN some of what hes told me he already had my hopes up then he says stuff like that see i told you one minute hes there the next hes not..(4/14/2008 2:54:15 PM): me and you needs to go out just me and you one night
errr sorry im irratated .. but told him im done to many mixed signals its a game to him that i aint playing anymore i got 3 sons i dont want another one lol .. oh well gonna take your advice spend time with the kids im tired of looking for a good man im gonna let one find me this time .. thanks for the advice
What are all those date/time stamps on your post?
Please for the love of god and your children stop the madness and cut all ties with that man. Time to get yourself in order and focus on those kiddos. A man is not the answer for you right now. Sorry to be so blunt!
Be good to you and your kids, OK?
OMG- he sends you texts like THAT??? Definitely drop him!!! No, better yet...
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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heres another pic of the baby lol i cant quit taken them
"there is never gonna be nothing more between us and he wont have to worry about sleeping with me or seeing me again for that matter ... told him there is someone out there tha will want me for me no matter my age"
GOOD JOB!!!!!!!!!! Yeah - and you are right. You will enjoy your boys for now - get strong on your own so you KEEP this strength and then wait for the right one - and make him show you over time that he is the right one for you.
Love the pic of the baby - what a cutie!!