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| Sun, 03-27-2005 - 8:41am |
Hi ladies. Im new to this board. I have a question for you all. My name is Shatema, I have 2 children (girls) well me and the girls father broke up about a year ago. Anyway I met this guy about 2wks ago and he seems very nice. He is 10yrs my senior im only 24 and has no children and never been married. Now my question to you all is that I like to talk to him and we have been out 1 time and he is very nice but I just don't know if its me not being ready to date anyone yet or if its him. I keep trying to find something wrong and if he asks me out I will try to think of some excuse as to why I can't go. I don't know what to do. I want to start dating again I just dont know how. Please help any adise is appreciated.
Thanks
Shatema


Welcome to our board - and Happy Easter -
If you want to go, then go. And if you don't then listen to your inner voice and don't go. I think that you will be able to date again when the time is right and the guy is right.
You don't HAVE to date just any guy who asks you out. You can say no. Sounds to me like this guy just isn't "turning your crank". Sure, he's got some qualities that you're looking for, but if that initial spark isn't there, it isn't there. You'll see when it's a guy you ARE interested in, you'll have no problem saying yes to that date.
So, for now, just decline this guy and look around for something else.
Alison
We are doing just fine, Its gets pretty rough at times but in the end it all okay. Thanks for asking. Here's a pic.
Shatema w/Destiny
and baby Daija 11/15/04
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y55/TEMAJAMES/DESDAJ.jpg
maybe you aren't really ready to date yet or date someone exclusively. It is okay to not date, maybe just go out with friends either girl or guy. He might not be the one for you and possibly deep down you know that. Just do what you feel is right for you. Don't go out with him if you are not sure you want to. Sometimes we just get a vibe from someone and call it women's intuition or whatever, listen to your heart. There might not be a connection between the two of you. I wouldn't worry you will feel like dating in your own good time.
nightangel
they are adorable
hang in there
it does get better
lots of friends here
nightangel
Thanks for sharing your pictures. Your daughters are cute.
It sounds like you're not interested in this guy. Don't try to find anything "right" about him. He's not doing it for you. So, don't force it.
You'll date again. Wait for someone who is more compatible.