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New w/ question..How do I let guys know?
| Sat, 09-02-2006 - 12:51am |
I am in the middle of a divorce from my husband of 3 years. He basically decided that our 5 month old son and i don't matter to him and wants to be a kid again. So i am now offically a single mother of three boys ages 6,4,and 5 months. I will not be "out there" in the dating world for sometime, but i just wanted to know how do i let guys that are interested in me know that i don't want a relationship of any kind. Be it casual sex or what have you. I just don't want anything to do with a man besides the 3 boys i am raising on my own now. I don't want to sound rude or anything but i also want to get the point across. Any advice would be appreciated.
Kathy
Kathy

Hi Angel,
Welcome to the board.
You are right not to want to date. Your life and your situation require full strength so you can get everything smoothed out and get over the actions of your exh. Sorry you had to go through such disappointment.
To answer your question, I would simply state that you are not dating right now. It doesn't matter why - the only thing that matters is that is what YOU want.
I hope you stick around - there are so many wonderful people posting here and each always has a story to brighten the day, a lesson to learn, or an "aha - I go through that too" so you will know you are not alone in your burdens. It has done me a world of good to participate.
We are always here to help, amuse, listen and advise!! Welcome!!