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| Wed, 04-16-2008 - 9:29am |
Hi all, I'm a newbie to this board. I am a mother of 1 beautiful little 21 month old girl. She is my world. I've been lurking around and recently have bumped into problems dating and thought I could use some support and advise. My story is simple...My daughters father is not in the pic, never even laid eyes on her and wants no part in her life. It took me a while to get back out and date again after she was born. This past Feb to be exact. He was someone I'd dated in the past so that made it easier. I told him ahead of time that I'd had a baby and he was fine with that. After dating 2 months he suddenly decides he can't handle the fact I have a child, so it's over. Is this what I have to look forward to with all men. He hadn't even met her because I wasn't ready for that step and neither was he, but why knowing all that time that I had her would he just change up like that. He and I have been friends since we were in high school so I've lost him as a friend as well as my SO. It just makes me sad. So please give me some good news and tell me there are good men out there that want to date women with kids.
Kristi


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I think you, and your house, are better off without ;)
Sounds like that was your rebound, and learning what you don't need or have to put up with, even though it was fun at times. Great lesson :)
In 3 yrs, 2 yrs, even 1 yr your life will be so amazingly different, you won't recognize the old one as even being normal. That all depends on the choices you make for yourself, and it sounds like you are making some good ones :) Good luck! (That is the most smiley's I think I've ever put on a post here...)
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