You need to find a way to get closure with your ex. I think you should sit down with him and spell out your feelings and see how he feels. If he is not interested, believe him. Also you may want to think beyond feelings and towards the future - if your ex is going to be stationed away from you then this is sort of a moot point.
I wonder why you left him? Is it because you were afraid of getting hurt? Or because he did something to make you feel that way?
As soon as you are at peace with your past, you will be free to enjoy the future with regards to dating other people.
Good luck! Welcome to our board - hope you stick around and participate in our posts - you will learn a lot here.
You need to find a way to get closure with your ex. I think you should sit down with him and spell out your feelings and see how he feels. If he is not interested, believe him. Also you may want to think beyond feelings and towards the future - if your ex is going to be stationed away from you then this is sort of a moot point.
I wonder why you left him? Is it because you were afraid of getting hurt? Or because he did something to make you feel that way?
As soon as you are at peace with your past, you will be free to enjoy the future with regards to dating other people.
Good luck! Welcome to our board - hope you stick around and participate in our posts - you will learn a lot here.
Welcome to the board.
I did sit down with him and spell it all out.
Alison, thank you for your advice.