Newbie with Questions!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2007
Newbie with Questions!!
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Fri, 12-28-2007 - 1:30pm

Hey everyone, I am new to the board.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Sat, 12-29-2007 - 4:42pm

You need to find a way to get closure with your ex. I think you should sit down with him and spell out your feelings and see how he feels. If he is not interested, believe him. Also you may want to think beyond feelings and towards the future - if your ex is going to be stationed away from you then this is sort of a moot point.

I wonder why you left him? Is it because you were afraid of getting hurt? Or because he did something to make you feel that way?

As soon as you are at peace with your past, you will be free to enjoy the future with regards to dating other people.

Good luck! Welcome to our board - hope you stick around and participate in our posts - you will learn a lot here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Sat, 12-29-2007 - 6:32pm

Welcome to the board.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2007
Tue, 01-01-2008 - 8:56am

I did sit down with him and spell it all out.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2007
Tue, 01-01-2008 - 9:06am

Alison, thank you for your advice.