New...Q. re: handling immature behavior

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Registered: 02-21-2008
New...Q. re: handling immature behavior
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Fri, 10-03-2008 - 11:16am

Hi -


I am new to this board..... I'm 37, 1 DD and I am separated for 2 years (D in process).

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 12:11pm

If these issues are emerging in the beginning of dating I wonder what else is around the corner. Usually the issues dont show up for a few months. Be careful whatever you decide to do and go into it with eyes wide open if you continue to see him.

Laurie

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 12:30pm

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 1:47pm

"He is forgetful, a little disorganized, and kind of a flake.


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Registered: 02-21-2008
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 2:02pm

Mark (and all)


Thank you, this was exactly the advice I was looking for.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 2:34pm

Hi CanDo-


I totally agree. Flakiness and lack of follow through is a huge turn off. If he is showing those colors now, then that is how he is and he's not going to change.


I'd just let it go, plain and simple. If he tries to engage you after recieving your email with sorries, lets try again, just be brief and to the point. "Its not going to work out. Lets stay friends".


Glad you jumped into our board!! Welcome aboard !!

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Registered: 02-21-2008
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 3:26pm

Thanks so much! I am happy to be here.


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Registered: 03-25-2002
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 7:27pm

mark gave you great advice..


welcome to the board... hope you stick around and join some discussions.


Loonybunny