The next date is planned

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Registered: 05-13-2005
The next date is planned
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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 11:32am

Okay.

We have been brainstorming about what to do for our date on Saturday. He says he wants to make it an official old fashioned first date.

So, he is driving to pick me up and then we are going to the beach (which isn't that far from his house - so it is a lot of extra driving for him). And then we are going to dinner on the beach to a new place. And then to dance.

I feel like I am in HS again!!

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 11:59am

Happy dancin for ya!

I love it when a guy takes charge and plans the whole thing instead of them asking what you want to do.

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 3:17pm

Haha- well, he's a blast from the past, that's for sure!


So the big question is: "but what will you wear????"




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Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 3:50pm

That sounds like a great time.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 7:40pm

Can already see cl_west

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Registered: 09-21-2006
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 11:55pm

It is such a simple thing, I am a total sucker for the "real date" thing. Enjoy it, shows that he really has romantic intentions- seriously into you. Now why do guys stop doing that after the first couple months? It's such an easy way to make your gal ever so happy with you.

QB who cuts M way too much slack on this issue.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 9:05am

That is interesting what you say and so true. But I think you graduate from one stage to another. There is the giddy initial stage where you want to impress each other. But then there is the stage where you click and trust each other more and start to share more with each other - and I guess that brings about the comfort level you speak about.

I did manage to get out of the house last night to grab a quick bite to eat with him. And we had a great talk about relationships and what we want and how we want a good friendship to develop before intimacy. And I like that a lot. He says he really wants a woman to be his best friend and not a notch in his belt. And that meant a lot to me.

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 10:25am

What is that now 2 dates before the "official" date? hee hee

I'm just giddy for you! This one may actually have some potential.

Sharon (who likes the giddy stage)

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 2:23pm

I'm so glad things are going well for you and Mr. Alumni!!! So how ARE these things going so well when you haven't even GONE ON A DATE YET?!? lol


Dang girl- admit it, you've already dated him TWICE now! When will you consider it a date? Once he dips you down and plants that good ol' kiss on you?? ;-)


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 2:33pm
Hey shrimpy...he may not have dipped her down, but he has already kissed her. I looked it up :) I'm definitely in agreement with you...this is date #3
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 3:16pm

Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others by John T. Molloy (http://tinyurl.com/yoxvxh)

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