...the next question of the week

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...the next question of the week
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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 9:13am

Candi's question of the week has led me to one I have been dying to ask all of you.

-How do you measure the quality of your sex life? What do you define as good versus bad?
-If a man is selfish in bed do you think you would see this anywhere else in his life - in other words, is he selfish in other ways?

Maybe you have experiences you want to share - how you communicate to make it better - insight. I agree with all of you that sex is very important.

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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 5:22pm
I totally agree! Again! Rather to small then to big! ANY DAY! I've been the big road a few times and scared out of my MIND! We aren't talking a little bigger than the average joe, we are talking godzilla and I'm small. I mean I am really a small girl in that sense. Very small framed and all. When it starts hitting that CERVIC...OWWWW!!!!!!!! I have stopped dating men for just that reason, but when that one guy unpacked, I didn't even try, I just ran for the hillsssssssssssssssss..........
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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 5:29pm

Mine was NOT a stalker, at all (actually a very nice guy, and I had I have been into the foot fetish thing, who knows?!?! LOL!!!!) and he bought me beautiful strappy sandals all of the time. Not Italian. And although I'm not really into shoes, living in Las Vegas, I AM into strappy sandals!!!!

But I couldn't deal. The only time I like feet is when they are attached to an infant and are fat and cute. Otherwise, not for me. Sweaty, stinky, crammed in shoes all day, or worse, barefoot on the ground where who knows who/what has done what!!!!

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Wed, 01-26-2005 - 9:51pm

>>>>When it starts hitting that CERVIC...OWWWW!!!!!!!!<<<

EXACTLY!!!!!

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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 11:02pm
I agree on this two - I have actually had a few dizzy spells where I felt very faint from this.
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Registered: 01-05-2005
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 1:56pm
I kind of like that dizzy feeling myself. ;)
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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 2:08pm
Dizzy is fine, but when someone bangs into my cervix repeatedly I hurts a lot, even sometimes for hours (and once for days) after.

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Registered: 01-05-2005
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 2:19pm
No, I mean I kind of like THAT feeling, specifically. We're all different. I have a very high pain threshold, some things other people consider pain, I consider pleasure. NOt that I like to be beat on or anything, but I want to definitely feel it all.
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 2:32pm

No, I know what you are saying, and I like that feeling too. I also have a high pain threshold, and I am sure that some things I enjoy would be considered painful for others (I could go into it, but it may not be such a good idea :)). When it's too long though, I end up feeling more than pleasure/pain, I feel *injured* One time (the time it lasted for days) I actually went to the midwife for a checkup because I thought something had been damaged and I was afraid it was permenant. Other times, when it's happened but lasted maybe for only hours, I end up just feeling ill.

I don't mind pain and it's great if the 'feeling' lasts for hours, but being injured feels different.

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Registered: 01-05-2005
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 2:34pm
Hmm, I think I know what I'm saying, too. I do like it, I don't feel injured after.
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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 2:42pm
Oh no... I wasn't saying you were being injured! Just that there is a point, for me, because I'm short inside when size matters and too big causes more than just good pain, it causes injured pain which is *not* a good feeling.

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