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...the next question of the week
| Wed, 01-26-2005 - 9:13am |
Candi's question of the week has led me to one I have been dying to ask all of you.
-How do you measure the quality of your sex life? What do you define as good versus bad?
-If a man is selfish in bed do you think you would see this anywhere else in his life - in other words, is he selfish in other ways?
Maybe you have experiences you want to share - how you communicate to make it better - insight. I agree with all of you that sex is very important.

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I got that.
I'm not small...and size is definitely an issue for me...
Ok, now I'm totally embarrassed.
LOL
You two are hilarious!
And yes, firstamendment, I am with you. There's a good pain, and then there the kind where one thrust and you jump out of your skin which then startles your partner and you have to slow down and change positions a bit... LOL!!!
Now that I am pregnant, J does this to me on a regular basis. We have to be careful. Everything is MUCH more sensitive. He's paranoid.
I just don't think we as women feel the NEED to brag about our body parts, in general. There are always exceptions to that rule though. I do know a few women who make sure to point out that people think they're hot, but even THEN they don't usually point to specific body parts, you know?
I don't mind the small guy, but I do mind the "Tell me how bad you want it baby, tell me how rock hard he is! Come on Baby, let me rock your world!" Please men, I don't mind sex talk, but don't start telling me your rock hard when darlin, I can hardly feel you! LOL
What a great string, I'm laughing reading all the responses...
-How do you measure the quality of your sex life? What do you define as good versus bad?
I'm always partial to the guys who ensure that I'm taken care of, either before or after he's done. I have NEVER had a sex- only orgasm, always need that extra stimulation to finish, so I'd have to say the best partners I've had were those that were skilled in that department. The one I'm with now had never gone down on a woman, all his past gf's wouldn't let him- so I will just say, he's a quick learner ;) He's very attentive and very satisfying. We have a lot of fun together and really have the same sex drive, so that works for me. And we are very open and the communication is great, so I don't feel embarrased telling him what I want.
-If a man is selfish in bed do you think you would see this anywhere else in his life - in other words, is he selfish in other ways?
I agree with the other posters that a guy who is selfish in bed is selfish in most areas of his life.
Alison
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