...the next question of the week

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...the next question of the week
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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 9:13am

Candi's question of the week has led me to one I have been dying to ask all of you.

-How do you measure the quality of your sex life? What do you define as good versus bad?
-If a man is selfish in bed do you think you would see this anywhere else in his life - in other words, is he selfish in other ways?

Maybe you have experiences you want to share - how you communicate to make it better - insight. I agree with all of you that sex is very important.

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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 9:04pm
Wow Alison - your current bf sounds great. And I agree with what you write.
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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 11:52pm

>>>I have NEVER had a sex- only orgasm, always need that extra stimulation to finish<<<

Me either and me too. I know it's pretty late in the thread to bring up a new topic, but has anyone here had a sex-only orgasm? How does that work?

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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 12:35am

Hey, i wanna know too. and i've tried all those positions you see in cosmo for the "get the g spot good* and they don't work...

so anyone know???

Alison

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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 5:11am
I am in the same boat as you guys. I have had g-spot orgasms - but not from sex. I think that very few women can have those - and it seems to be related to have strong PC muscles. But maybe someonehere can enlighten us - where is Maggie when you need her?
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 5:58am
I am totally the opposite when it comes to an orgasm! I can have an orgasm just thinking about it or men get suprised, but I can also get one from kissing a guy. LOL! Don't ask where that comes from, but I guess I am so sexually confident about myself, that I can have an orgasm anyplace, anywhere, anytime and several times over. It's gotten more so since either: I got divorced or hit my 30's. Who knows! But, I'm not complaining. LOL
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 9:10am
Ok, since you asked...please don't think I'm bragging. Everyone is different, I think. I have, often. I have been told, often, that I'm wired differently than most women. I like lots of direct stimulation and I almost never fail to have a few orgasms with sex only. I can keep having them till I drop, apparently. My 10 years younger guy had a hard time keeping up, but he TRIED. 17 in a night is my record.
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 9:49am
OMG.

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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 10:25am
I'm sorry?
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 10:26am
OMG that your body can do that. I'm so jealous.

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Registered: 01-05-2005
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 10:28am

It has it's down side.


When you don't have a partner, it BITES.


And I think it's made it hard for me to go for "nice guys"...


Now I'm thinking I'll just keep it on the back burner, FIND a nice guy and then SURPRISE the HELL outta him. LOL

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