...the next question of the week

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...the next question of the week
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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 9:13am

Candi's question of the week has led me to one I have been dying to ask all of you.

-How do you measure the quality of your sex life? What do you define as good versus bad?
-If a man is selfish in bed do you think you would see this anywhere else in his life - in other words, is he selfish in other ways?

Maybe you have experiences you want to share - how you communicate to make it better - insight. I agree with all of you that sex is very important.

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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:33am

Yes - that's literally what I'm saying -- all the time -- no matter which way were doing it -- oral, manual -- intercourse -- you name it, it happens. I just have to know, anyone else out there that can do that? How unique is it? Am I an alien from another planet?

Donna

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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:38am
No, your not. I am not sure how that comes about, but my friend can do this and men love it! I do know its very rare, but, a definite turn on for guys.
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:40am

Sometimes a bonus, yes. You're not weird, lots of women have that I think.


I guess we all feel weird about something....


Don't let it bother you.

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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:44am
It feels different for me, like it's from a different place in my body. Not sure I can explain it much more than that. But relative to, if someone hits you in the arm, it's different than if someone hits you in the gut. Just different.
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:48am
I have the greatest Gynecologist in the WORLD. We talk about sex non-stop. Therefore, when I see him next week, I'll ask him to explain it to me. He has the answer to everything.
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:49am

One time Donna. Just once. And that was that night J was determined to "break the record". ;)


Can't see it happening very often. VERY surprising.

Becky

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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:50am
I have the same experience as you so you are not from an alien planet!! This definitely happens with a g-spot O. The practice is described at length in tantra books and sites. I want to figure out how I can have them with intercourse - it is interesting that happens to you. But I think once you figure out/develop the g-spot then it happens much easier.
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:51am
Yes - get him to tell us your secret. You are lucky!!
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:51am
It's actually ejaculation, different then cum.
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:55am
We actually sit a talk for at least an hour. I am always his last patient. He says he is doing a "sexual study on me." LOL. He thinks I am intriguing. LOL He is married, but I swear the way he is, he's totally Gay.

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