No call, no e-mail....

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Registered: 07-10-2001
No call, no e-mail....
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Mon, 03-28-2005 - 11:35pm
Screw it.
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Registered: 06-30-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 7:50am
Yeah man, don't worry about it. You'll find someone better. Just stay positive and keep on looking.
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Registered: 05-25-2004
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 8:28am

Then that is that. I don't think you should beat yourself up - just get out your net - there are plenty of other fish out there.

Sorry you had to go through the disappointment - but there is someone even better out there for you. And we all had fun listening to your stories.

I would just let this go.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 9:32am
I am sorry she didn't call. Sorry that it was a dead end ... THIS time. Don't give up. But remember to enjoy the process and not always be looking for the end result "ideal relationship". Hang in there.
Becky

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 9:57am
I am so sorry it ended that way. I know it sucks. For what it's worth, I think you did the right things and your heart was certainly in the right place. I loved that you sent flowers and I loved your note. I do think you let your heart go too fast, but I also know you thought all the signs were there with her. Not that it will make you feel better. :(

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 9:59am

Huggies to you Darlin! I also agree that I thought your gesture was nice, but I guess women are weary of flowers and compliments nowadays. Let it go, their are people like me that still appreciate them.

Big hugs,
Catherine

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Registered: 07-14-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 12:35pm
We've all been there! It really does suck! I am sure all of us on this board would have called you! :) I know exactly how you feel, so far from anyone I have met, there have been no calls or emails either. I try not to let it get to me....
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Registered: 07-10-2001
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 10:29pm

I talked to J tonight, she called during the middle of kid duty, so I called her back.

We had a pleasant conversation. And we talked about what was going on with us.

She has a guy she'd seen for some time, who, probably out of fear of losing her to someone else, has asked her to be exclusive with him.

Basically, she's considering it.

I told her to let me know what happens...if she decides to keep her options open, I would like to spend more time with her.

And that was that.