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Registered: 07-14-2007
no good update for me
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Sat, 08-09-2008 - 1:13am

So I thought my friend was a nice stand up guy but he cancelled on me with a lie. Yes I know it was a lie because his friend who could have vouched for him told me it was a lie and that he wasn't worth it. Great!!! So the cheater is a better man than the man I was meeting. Oh well. I still had fun although there was an unfortunate email to the ex before my phone was confiscaed. Aye yey yey,,,,OH well....maybe it is not my time yet.

I guess I have been officially rejected now.

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 1:29am
That sucks! I wish that I at least had a stand up guy tell me when his friend is lieing! I'm glad you found out before investing any further on the pond scum! Jerk.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 8:57am
Oh my, what an @s$!!!
 
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 9:00am
"So the cheater is a better man than the man I was meeting" ........ No No No! neither are "better" & neither are worthy!

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 2:07pm

Sorry to hear about that guy lying and cancelling. But sounds like you made the most of it and had a good night anyway.


Hope you have fun tonight at your reunion....

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Registered: 04-30-2008
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 10:16pm

Hi Rebecca,


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Registered: 07-14-2007
Sun, 08-10-2008 - 3:05pm

I don't think I worded that very well. ha ha!! The cheater is my friend's ex and no he is not really better. I just meant that even he knew this guy was trying to work me and didn't like it. Oh well...I am already over it. I am still looking to move forward but this wasn't the right one to take the step with me. If you read my post about the reunion, there is a guy that has the qualities I want (although he is already taken) which gives me hope that it does exist.

Funny he called twice yesterday and left two long messages. I didn't even listen to them. Really what is the point; it won't change my mind. So I haven't responded to his texts or vm and he will have to be the one left wondering.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Sun, 08-10-2008 - 3:37pm

Really what is the point; it won't change my mind.


Exactly!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Sun, 08-10-2008 - 7:13pm
I agree - I vote for KISS and no drama! Msmsavvanah - you will have to NEXT quite a few before you find someone nice. So, let this one begin the pile!
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 11:59pm
Savannah- how are things going?
The boy

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 2:15pm

Sorry about the jerk standing you up... but like Rebecca said, you dodged a bullet.


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