No News is Good News ...

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Registered: 03-15-2004
No News is Good News ...
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Thu, 12-13-2007 - 9:01am

Hey everyone. Just a quick update. I dont even KNOW that X has been notified or not of the psyc decision to stop all visitation, but he must have been b/c we never hear from him anymore. Its been a couple weeks since he has called Averey (he would call at least once or twice a week to talk to her b4- way more often prior to

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 9:39am

Well, in this department, no news is good news! I wonder if you should check in with the psych to see if he has given your exh the news? And if I was you I would ask the psych if it is okay to send him anything from Avery? Because I know it is a good gesture and you mean well, but it could very well open up a can of worms and a whole range of anger emotions because it is the holidays and he can't see his kid. I don't mean to sound like a bah humbug - but I think you should ask the psych about it.

Glad to hear the waters are calm though. May they remain that way for a long time!

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 9:39am

Phew!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 9:46am
No news is REALLY good news in this regard.
 
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 10:20am
The spies in the enemy camp is a very good idea!
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:05am

I'm surprised that no one called to let you know they had notified him, and what his reaction to the news was!


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Registered: 06-04-2004
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:08am

I'm glad things haven't blown up on you guys over there! I think many of us were fearing the worst reaction out of him, and if he already knows the news, and isn't going ballistic... then maybe things will be okay.


I think that is very sweet of Ave to be making things for her dad!!! I also think it would be very sweet for her to send it to him too... except that it's a sweet

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:41am

No - I specifially asked about phone contact & he can call her, & she can call him. As long as I am supervising the phone calls.


lol- no havent seen Carlos. Spoken to him though. Thinsg are the same ... as always. lol

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:42am
I will check w/ the psyc on sending him a gift. But i do know phone calls are allowed, both ways - as long as they are supervised by me.

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Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:43am
Nope. Not a soul who i could ask. He has become quite the hermit i think. From what I have heard.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 11:43am
Thanks. Lets hope it all DOES stay quiet.

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