I've fallen into that same insecurity trap that CW is in before. BE has times when he is just plain down about life. I would take it personally until finally I learned he is human just like me. I have days when I am down in general and irritated. But I still love him and usually it has nothing to do with him. So it took me some time to let him "be" in his funk and not take it personally.
My hope is that CW allows you to just be and feel how you are and not make it about her. I would imagine that it is exausing to be down already and then feel like you have to take care of her feelings on top of that.
Sorry you're feeling down Mark. I know it can't always be sunshine, so that is something that CW will need to understand. I related to a lot in your post, at least the job and money worries. It sucks and I've been very down lately too. I hope you perk up soon.
(((HUGS))) A lot of people will take your not being blissfully happy as them not making you happy. That's how they tick. Not giving advice just saying I understand.
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Hey Mark-
I've fallen into that same insecurity trap that CW is in before. BE has times when he is just plain down about life. I would take it personally until finally I learned he is human just like me. I have days when I am down in general and irritated. But I still love him and usually it has nothing to do with him. So it took me some time to let him "be" in his funk and not take it personally.
My hope is that CW allows you to just be and feel how you are and not make it about her. I would imagine that it is exausing to be down already and then feel like you have to take care of her feelings on top of that.
Good luck and thanks for sharing that..
Mark, sorry you're having a bum day :(
"And even though I don’t adore her, I have told her that I love her.
Thanks all for your kind words.
Hi Mark,
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