not dating anyone else!!

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Registered: 03-25-2002
not dating anyone else!!
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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 4:53am

okay .. MM and i finally talked about exclusive. my instincts have been spot on... so tonight after watching our show and nakie time... we were lying in bed and i thought... hmm, it's time to bring it up and know where i stand.


so i said, um.. we've been seeing alot of each other. pause as i got up the nerve and thought of the best way to say it... so i then i said, well, i'm not seeing anyone else. And, phew, he said, neither am i. He went on to say, he hasn't been seeing anyone else for a while now. (prob since halloween). So i gather, after he made up his mind, and prior to us sleeping together, he decided to pay all his attention to me. Which is what my instincts were telling me all along. So, i told him, that at some point i just didn't have the interest to date others anymore. And he said he felt the same. YAY!


then he was kinda like, well ya could have just ask me sooner.... so that's what he meant by "you can ask me anything" he said. he also said, it's better to ask then to worry about it. But i said, i wasn't worried. i've been listening to my gut. I had a good feeling we were on the same page. And i also said, that i'm glad we talked about it.


I also asked him if he was the jealous type... since there

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 4:37pm
Whew!! Doesn't it feel good to have that conversation out of the way. I am glad to hear things are going well.
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 6:03pm
thanks for the well wishes. Feels VERY good to have that conversation out of the way!! VERY good!

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