Not even sure where to start here ...

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Not even sure where to start here ...
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 3:11pm

except to say I am appalled & disgusted at what this country calls a "Court system" & how no one seems to have a clue.


Lets start w/ some of the thing in the psyc report:


*"shortly following the courts recommendation that family become invloved in therapy, last year, mother made an appt with me. But father did not do so for 11

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 3:29pm

WTF?!!!

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 3:32pm

((((HUGS)))) Rebecca--I can't believe the the mediator was so incompetent!!

April

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 3:40pm
Oh #$%^&*!! I got so mad reading this post - I just feel enraged for you and I know that probably doesnt help...i wish I had a magic wand to fire the mediator, hire a new one and let you start the day over. The mediator you got sounds so negligent at his job - how can they assign someone a case like this and have them be this imcompetent. it isnt a business merger meeting for Christs sake. I just cant believe that when a child's welfare is at risk, the mediator doesnt even read the freakn file. Unreal to me. I hoep that when the psych calls there will be some way he can help this I really do.
And the good and the bad news is we all know he wont take long to mess up again R. But poor Ave - I know you just must be sick over this.
HUGS overload over there. I am sending a truck of chocolate your way...
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 4:16pm

OMG, Rebecca!!!

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 5:00pm

I only got through half of this, and I have to go race off to get ready for tomorrow.

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 5:14pm

((((Rebecca)))))


Holy Cow- I'm so ticked after reading this. The mediator was a freaking joke! Unbelievable. Is THIS what our court system is coming to? God- I had faith that things were better. I'm appauled that he was so unprepared and clueless and WTF does he think "life is fluid" is going to help?


Do you you think that your atty or the psych were aware of how incompitent the mediator was? I'll be praying that the visits go OK...I know how sick this must make you feel....Ugh.


Will these visits begin this weekend? How does Ave feel about this?


For you:



For the mediator:


~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 7:44pm
HUGS. What a waste of time. How can someone think that the history of disfunctional behavior is irrelevant? What, Taz is given a "clean slate" and will miraculously be sane? So how many women and children does this guy send back into physically abusive situations because he can't be bothered to read the history? At least in AZ, where we are required to try mediation before going to court, we aren't bound by mediation unless we agree to the resolution the mediator comes up with.Yes, the court system is busted.
QB
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 8:24pm

I know you guys. I am just still dazed at this stage. Furious & dazed.


I did speak to psyc - who was appalled. He was floored. He said "this NOT good. Its just unacceptable. What? So if a kid was being sexually abused, would this guy call for a clean slate?"

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:18pm

I am utterly dumbfounded.


The degree of incompetence of the so called mediator is beyond imagination. Malfeasance and nonfeasance and negligent stupidity. It's amazing someone that stupid can remember to breath.


I agree with others, file a complaint with the court against the mediator. It probably won't help but it can't hurt.


I am so sorry for you and Ave. I pray for your safety and hers.


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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:25pm

& the scary thing? He is a former JUDGE!


Now, if i file a complaint, dont you think that would make him even MORE likely to "side" w/ my X, at the 2 month review? I am thinking maybe I will wait till Taz screws up, THEN file something. At least then it looks like i was right in my fears.

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