Note- Thurs AM meeting with psyc & X -
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Note- Thurs AM meeting with psyc & X -
| Tue, 01-29-2008 - 11:16pm |
psyc called to say that X was able to fit his appt into what we (psyc & I) were avaliable. Its Thurs AM.
X has been pretty quiet since the threats last week via phone that he was "going crazy not seeing dd, & going to blow & it wouldnt be good for me or the doctor, & I could take those as threats if i wanted to".
DD called him once in a week or so, & he still isnt calling her at all.
So, ... onward ... lol







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I will be thinking about you tomorrow morning--I hope something definate will happen with this appointment!
April
Rebecca, be proud of yourself and the way you are handling all of this.
Thanks for the encouragement, all of you.
Your right Moon, it IS wearing on me. I guess i truly KNEW it had to be done, stopping visitation, but i also didnt think it would take this long for him to do something about seeing her. & Lord knows, one meeting isnt going to "fix it" all. & although Averey has done really well, its starting to really wear on her as well. She is really missing him - but i know she is missing the dad she USED to know, not the Dad he has become.
Its sort of a case here of knowing whats best for your child & having NO choice but to follow thru, even though she is hurt by it. But this hurt, of missing him, is FAR LESS damaging long term, than the continued emotional abuse he was subjecting her to. Her counselor keeps reminding me of that - as do all of you.
Sending good thoughts in your direction as always...
Also will be thinking of you tomorrow here, and hoping for some positive outcome.
mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16
Hi again. To preface, I am a stable and responsible person who has been in the same field for 7 years and the same house (MY townhome)
No! Never. Can you imagine her sitting in school worrying about it? One if my biggest issues with her father was HE woudl tell her everything. I would be picking her up from his house & he would announce to her "Averey, hope i get to see you again someday b/c Mommy is taking me to court today & telling the judge Im a bad person", etc.
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