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| Fri, 04-18-2008 - 5:47pm |
So MCDAD called me yesterday after his doc appt to let me know how it went. Had to have blood taken. He's just tired. So we chatted for about 20 min. He had to go so I said ok I'll call you later. He said ok, talk to you soon. I called him back. No answer. It was about 8 ish and he has to be up and gone by 6 am. So

OK SERIOUSLY listen up - now would be a fabulous time for you to do some spring cleaning or start a house project. You need to immerse yourself in something and allow him to stew a bit and realize how great you are!
Maybe he read it as a totally loaded question and is not sure HOW to respond. Maybe he isn't sure if you're asking because you are wanting it to be more ("she's thinking IT already?? It's too soon, doesn't she know that?!?") and so he's backing off (or running).
Or maybe he thought things were fine and then the question made him wonder what you are expecting- in the opposite direction. As if you were asking that, because that was all YOU wanted- and was checking to see if he was getting too deep...
But who knows??? I would just let it lie. Because if you think about it... if he is going to run because of one question, and not even want to talk about it- then he's not someone you'd want to keep anyway. You want someone who is nice like him- but ALSO willing and able to discuss things with you, too! Don't settle for anything but the entire package.
Still, (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) because you still haven't had an answer to your question. But just because he was tired tonight and wasn't going out- doesn't mean he wants to end everything. Believe the ending only when you KNOW it's happened... not when you are bracing only for the possibility... it's something that hasn't even happened!
Keep busy and let the time pass on by.
~shrimpy
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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I agree with shrimpy--he is probably not sure how to approach the subject and so he is working it out in his head.
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