Notice i am NOTon my date right now!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Notice i am NOTon my date right now!
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Sun, 09-16-2007 - 8:34pm

Ok, need your opinions - I think I "did it" again!" - remember at some point, I don’t even remember the details, but at some point I left something open-ended with a date in the past & it turned out he didnt think we were comfirmed for sure & I did??? Or something like that.


ANYway - Originally IT guy & I were going out next Fri, for the 1st time - had to wait that long b/c of my schedule.

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 8:51pm

Oh how aggravating!!! I think it would've been common courtesy to have called you about having other plans come up. Especially when you guys DID have tentative plans to meet up. Tentative is still "penciled in" and that warrants a call if you have to cancel, IMO!


I'd give him another chance though. You DO want to meet in person before "nexting" him. Especially if so many things match up... you don't want to miss out on a chance to give it a try- just on this episode of miscommunication.


Now if he starts disappearing on you like how Mr. History did to Cat awhile back... then I'd say Next!!! But for now- give him another chance.


(((((((hugs)))))))) about whatever went on with Ave and the ex-hole... I know how maddening all THAT is. I'm sure he hasn't grown up yet, right?


~shrimpy, busy cramming for ACLS this week

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 08-01-2007
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 8:57pm

I'm new here - but i was bouncing around and saw this post - all i can say is i feel ya sistah - i'd be pretty ticked too.

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 9:33pm

I'd give him another chance, but I think I would let him contact me. I wouldn't call or email him at this point. If it were me if like after a week I still didn't hear from him I'd have to email at that point and use those ever so handy initals "WTF?" Inconsideration is a pet peeve of mine.

I think I missed something. I thought you were still planning to meet on Friday.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 9:55pm

No, he has NOT Grown up at ALL!

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Sun, 09-16-2007 - 9:56pm
Oooh! lol about YOUR 1st date!

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Sun, 09-16-2007 - 9:59pm
Yeah, good point. I would guess we still WERE on for Fri - hope we still are! This was a sort of "lets see if we can get toegther sooner thing". I dont know, maybe i was just PMSing. Or so excited to meet him & dissapointed. AND nervous about meeting him & Im not ususally like that. And scared he will hate me & it will all suck. So ALL that combined with the X/kiddo issues, i lost it. But thankfully did NOT e him in a fury. & the VM wasnt snotty, just sort of "slilghtly perturbed", lol.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 10:00pm

Thanks girls, here is what i sent him, now the BASEBALL (lol) is in HIS court ...

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 10:22pm
Very tactful! I can just imagine how you felt earlier though, especially throwing the X thing in with it.
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 09-17-2007 - 10:27am

PERFECT!

I was about to reply to the first one and then said I better read them all. I would definitely give him another chance - but around your schedule of course.

Good luck and keep us posted. How crazy that the same game threw a wrench with the xh as well.

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 09-17-2007 - 11:11am

Rebecca,


I agree that he should've called you to let you know that he had the invite instead of send you an email... but he likely figured that you would get the email long before you did.


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