Novel alert...extremely long post...!

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Registered: 06-27-2007
Novel alert...extremely long post...!
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Fri, 10-24-2008 - 8:18pm

 


 

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Registered: 05-06-2008
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 11:28pm

Oh, dear, he is messing with your mind. If I was his girlfriend, I would be having a fit if I knew he was texting you at midnight, considering you have feelings for him. Sounds like he knows you want him, and he is playing you. I know you said he was a dear friend, but I think he is crossing a line.

Like you, I feel REALLY lonely sometimes. Today I was feeling so low I even thought about getting in touch with I guy I was seeing who, in the end, wasn't very nice to me. We all have these days when we are in this situation. This guy is the first post-marriage guy you had feelings for so you are holding a lot of stock in his opinion of you. I did the same thing...the guy had "some" feeling for me, but in the end not what I needed, but I hung on for a while hoping it would change...you get the idea.

Find some other outlet rather than pining away for him. Yeah, maybe change your number. I have a policy of completely deleting a guy from my phone when necessary which works well in this age of call return and texting...you never have to memorize a number.

It's rough, you may cry yourself to sleep sometimes, but I really feel like he is doing a number on you, and that isn't nice or fair.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2007
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 11:41pm

I am soooo cognizant of the fact that I am just LONELY and want him because I cannot have him anymore.