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Now MY guy update lol
| Wed, 05-30-2007 - 12:36pm |
Well things seem to be going well actually. I have 2 guys that I am emailing on a regular basis and a couple of new ones.
First guy I'll call Milkman because he transports milk from dairy farms here to NC. lol He writes well, seems very grounded and sincere, we have a lot in common, he loves his son, and he's a country boy. LOVE country boys. :) I hope to talk to him this afternoon.
Second guy I'll call Firefighter because that is what he does plus he's an EMT. I know what y'all are going to say! lol He has a son as well and is closer to me than the first guy. If I ever get to meet him I will watch the drinking. *wink wink*
The other 2 guys are a farther away but seem nice. We shall see!
Jennifer

I think it is smart to watch the drinking, based on what I just learned. But surely don't write him off yet - one of my good friends has a boyfriend who is an EMT/fireman and he does not drink - he works out a lot and works on his house a lot and has a lot of time together - they have been happy for more than 3 years together.
We cannot be biased on someone because of their job - we can be more careful.
I would even go so far as to say don't put any don'ts in your profile. Because if you say you don't want a drinker, the drinker is not going to realize he is a drinker and everyone will think you are a loser that has drama because you dated a drinker.
The profile, attitude and day must start fresh - just like the parks of Disney - you clean up the mess from the previous day's visitors and you start brand new like the best park in the US.