Now think of all the years you tried to
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| Sat, 04-07-2007 - 1:32pm |
find someone to satisfy you. I might be as crazy as you say. If I'm crazy then it's true that it's all because of you and you wouldn't want me any other way. You may be right, I may be crazy, but it just might be a lunatic you're looking for. It's too late to fight, it's too late to change me. You may be wrong for all I know, but you may be right...
So, things with funnyguy are going well. We've seen each other often, took the kids out to eat, and spent time with my friends. We've had a few real dates, but also a few nights where we played games or watched a movie here. He's coming to Easter dinner at my parents' on Sunday, and I'm meeting his on Monday.
It threw me for a loop when we were talking one day this week and he was telling me about a conversation he had at work. He referred to me as his girlfriend in the conversation, and it was such a strange sensation, being referred to as someone's girlfriend after so long. He met FF, my best girlfriend, last night, and she said "it's really weird to see you happy with a boyfriend." I guess those two conversations made it hit home that I have a boyfriend. I've been dating, single for so long that I just wasn't used to the label as it applies to me.
I'm not stressing about this. He and I are SO MUCH alike, that we're both just incredibly comfortable with one another. There's definitely chemistry, but I know neither of us is thinking with our hormones, in fact, there's not a whole lot to think about with him. It just fits, it's just right.
He met my closest best friend last night, we had dinner then played cards at her place, then went out for a couple of drinks. It wasn't at all awkward between them, and she said once after he and I had gone on a rant about something silly "what a great match you two are!" I definitely need to be with someone with the same type of humor that I have, and funnyguy keeps me on my toes, and in stitches.
At the end of the evening, FF hugged me and said "I'm so happy for you. It's really obvious you two click amazingly well." She's seen me through my last disastrous relationship and all of the casual dating of the past couple of years, so it was probably as much a shock to her as it was to me that I could be myself, be happy, in a relationship, and that she'd like the guy.
It's wonderful for me to know I won't have to have seperate lives- he can fit in easily with Brown Eyed Girl and that group, and with FF- and I don't have to choose to see either him or them. He is also wonderful about talking things through- something I didn't know was important to me. He's great about telling me when he wants to do something, he makes it clear that I'm an important part of his life, but he isn't smothering me or rushing things, either.
I think one of the best things about him is that we're so alike. He seriously could BE me, only older and male. It's almost uncanny, and nearly every day we find another similarity or common interest or wacky thing about us that's the same.
Now, on to our trip. The kids and I leave Wednesday morning for Disney. I've been busy shopping, planning, and prepping for the big trip. The kids, of course, are extremely excited. I'm excited too, but also a little concerned about the trip- traveling anywhere with two little kids can be a hassle, and we've never gone this far from home before, never flown, never stayed this long at a hotel. I'm sure I'll forget to pack something, but as long as I don't forget a child, I'm not all that worried.
My father leaves the Friday we'll be gone for his second bone marrow transplant, and he and my mother will be at a hospital three hours from home for at least 6 weeks, probably closer to 8, depending on how well it goes. I'm a little bummed that he's leaving when we're gone, but since the kids aren't allowed at the hospital, it's probably good that they'll be having loads of fun instead of thinking about him. They don't really know a lot about his illness, only that he isn't able to do as much as he used to, will be spending a long time at the hospital, and can't be around them when they're sick.
I've been working 60-70 hours a week at work, but have been on vacation since yesterday, and boy did I need it! I love my job, but I am thoroughly enjoying the time off, and see now how people can suffer easily from burnout.
So, boyfriend, trip, dad, job, I think you're all up to date on my life now!!
Moody, who thought she was busy until reading R's post!

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Oh Moody - this is great news about funnyguy - sounds like you two are settling in well and everything is staying smooth, fun and easy. I like everything you write. The funny thing is that it was so unexpected.
Sorry to hear about your dad - I hope he recovers quickly.
It is good to hear you are getting in extra hours - I know that is hard - but it is good for you. And great to hear you get to go to Disney with the kids. Those trips are so much fun and you have to enjoy them now while your kids are little. You will have many happy memories and a lot of fun in those parks!!
Okay - great update - keep us posted as you can! We are rooting for you.
Love the song intros as always!!
I think because I'm so incredibly busy at work- I could work another three hours a day and not get everything done- the days seem to fly by. It isn't until I come home to a messy house, a laundry pile taller than me, and a "honeydew" list that might as well be a "watermelon" list- that it even hits me how little time off I have. It's a darned good thing I function best on 4-6 hours sleep, since I'm lucky if I get 5 most nights.
funnyguy came over tonight for dinner, (I can't believe I cooked for him!) and brought the kids each a stuffed bunny for Easter and a chocolate one for me. Smart man, giving me the sugar and not the children! They like him, which makes me happy.
I have to go buy him something tomorrow early while everything's open, since it completely escaped my consciousness that I ought to do that ahead of time. I already know what I want to get him in Florida (he really likes Goofy, so anything Goofy will do, and it works, since neither of us is too serious) so for Easter, I think I'll keep it equally light and easy- maybe chocolate, since that seems to be a sure bet.
While he was here, he helped me organize a scavenger hunt for the kids' baskets. He had some awesome ideas I hadn't thought of, and was super creative in designing a map for their final clue on the desktop computer (which is the one the kids use). It was a lot of fun, and he said at one point, "I'm really sorry that I have to work and won't be able to see them figure out all of these clues." How very sweet. I'm glad he seems to get enjoyment out of them, since they're obviously the biggest part of my life.
Moody, getting ready to break out the chocolate
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i've been doing some research- another poster recommended a couple of GREAT websites about Disney, but obviously a pro like you would be a welcome addition!
The kids are most excited about the character dining... well, they're most excited about all of it. I'm not sure any of us can really imagine what it will be like.
It would be awesome to meet next weekend- I'll hopefully be a pro at navigating the area by then. We're staying at a Disney resort, and thanks to everyone's suggestions, I do have our days pretty planned, insofar as I know which park we're doing on what days, but I left the rest pretty much open.
Here's hoping for wonderful weather!
Moody, blissfully happy
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I know exactly what you mean about hearing your guy refer to you as your girlfriend for the first time. Especially, if it has been awhile since someone has called you that. My BF was at my house just hanging out, when a buddy of his called on his cell phone. I heard him say, "I'm not home. I'm at my girlfriend's house." At first I was a little surprised, but then I just had a big grin on my face. It sounded so nice. Now he refers and introduces me as his girlfriend to everyone, as do I. A few weeks ago he told me he was falling for me, and that was even more wonderful to hear. I'm sure there are lots of more wonderful things to come for both of us :)
Have a blast at Disney. I took my daughter there 3 years ago when she was 7. We had a great time, and especially enjoyed the breakfast with the characters.
Kristy
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Sounds like things are moving right along for you, yeah! Wait til you get introduced as "My future bride". Yikes! M did that this past weekend. I stayed calm and took it as a joke. The whole putting a definition on our relationship thing is so awkward. BF and GF sounds so juvenile. We are more than just friends.
Sorry to read about your dad, but it is probably good to have the kids extra busy while Grandpa is going through this rough time.
I did send you an email, just now, actually. We're excited, and getting ready to get everything packed up.
Thanks to everyone for the happy thoughts, I know we'll have a blast!
Moody, getting antsy
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