AMEN!!!! My ex got his GF (married gf) pregnant while we were still married...Now they are living in my house pretending to be happy...I work 68 hrs a week just to make ends meet.
Isysmoon! You poor thing. Well, you can bet that if any woman is getting married to a doctor and has a nice ring - everyone does want to know - I mean we even enjoyed your story here and you know we wish you well and we are always badgering you for a wedding date!! LOL!! You have to imagine yourself to be somewhat of a figurehead and they are just curious and do not mean any harm - smile - and don't let it get to you and it will subside as soon as the next topic hits the water cooler - you just have an adjustment to go through. It is natural human nature and there is nothing you can do.
As for the others - their experience does not affect you - so don't let it get to you. Although I do see your point that a homewrecker is a horrid thing.
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AMEN!!!! My ex got his GF (married gf) pregnant while we were still married...Now they are living in my house pretending to be happy...I work 68 hrs a week just to make ends meet.
Oh Isys, I hate to hear about these small minded gossips.
Isysmoon! You poor thing. Well, you can bet that if any woman is getting married to a doctor and has a nice ring - everyone does want to know - I mean we even enjoyed your story here and you know we wish you well and we are always badgering you for a wedding date!! LOL!! You have to imagine yourself to be somewhat of a figurehead and they are just curious and do not mean any harm - smile - and don't let it get to you and it will subside as soon as the next topic hits the water cooler - you just have an adjustment to go through. It is natural human nature and there is nothing you can do.
As for the others - their experience does not affect you - so don't let it get to you. Although I do see your point that a homewrecker is a horrid thing.
That's exactly what I do and they act offended!
Oh Isys!!!
I guess part of my adjustment is the fact that I'm also in management and don't want it to affect my job here.
People started asking about wedding dates and kids which really threw me.
I'm like you - almost no one knew about my separation/divorce until WELL after the fact, and that was only
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