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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
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Tue, 07-08-2008 - 11:27am

Maybe I'm just tired, I don't know.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2008
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 11:35am

AMEN!!!! My ex got his GF (married gf) pregnant while we were still married...Now they are living in my house pretending to be happy...I work 68 hrs a week just to make ends meet.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 11:56am

Oh Isys, I hate to hear about these small minded gossips.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 12:19pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 12:44pm

Isysmoon! You poor thing. Well, you can bet that if any woman is getting married to a doctor and has a nice ring - everyone does want to know - I mean we even enjoyed your story here and you know we wish you well and we are always badgering you for a wedding date!! LOL!! You have to imagine yourself to be somewhat of a figurehead and they are just curious and do not mean any harm - smile - and don't let it get to you and it will subside as soon as the next topic hits the water cooler - you just have an adjustment to go through. It is natural human nature and there is nothing you can do.

As for the others - their experience does not affect you - so don't let it get to you. Although I do see your point that a homewrecker is a horrid thing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 12:46pm

That's exactly what I do and they act offended!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 12:48pm

Oh Isys!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 12:50pm

I guess part of my adjustment is the fact that I'm also in management and don't want it to affect my job here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 1:06pm

People started asking about wedding dates and kids which really threw me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 1:11pm
Awww thanks Moon!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: isysmoon
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 1:16pm

I'm like you - almost no one knew about my separation/divorce until WELL after the fact, and that was only

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