Oh geesh.....
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| Thu, 06-28-2007 - 11:22am |
It's like living in a third world country........
A couple of months ago, I told a really close friend of mine here that I was dating M. She told me that her sister is living in the same town (very very small town) with her husband as M is and if maybe M knows him. Well come find out, M and this guy were best friends for a long time. For one reason or another (and I'm guessing now why), they stopped being friends.
So my friend just had a baby and needed to get away and she gave me a call. We sat outside and had a couple of glasses of wine and she gets to TALKING. She told me how she spoke to her sister about M and asked what type of person M is, etc.
Well they had nothing but awesome things to say about him, but get this....
They had PLENTY to say about the X wife. I had to swear to God not to rely this information to M ever, but what I found out, totally freaked me out. I'm thinking M may even know this, but I am very unsure.
All I know is that M had asked his X, when he caught her cheating on him if it was the only time and she said no. But M never told me if she named names. However, it seems that this woman had an affair with HER step-father prior to this guy and WHO knows who else. And last night, I thought about it and was thinking, did she mean my friends, sisters father? But then I remembered they have the same father and mother, so she couldn't have meant that, so she must have meant that it was the X's mothers husband.
My girlfriend said that this woman is off the rocker. That her sister and her husband said the woman is nuts and that his X put M through a serious wringer and caused horrible damage to him. My friend also said to me that she will find out more information, because her sister knows quite a bit and because I am having issues with the X and her husband, she would find out.
Of course I would never say anything to M, because first I really need to know a little bit more and in all reality, I don't think I want to open that can of worms. But knowing that and knowing what she put M through, the children through now and thinking I might have to look at that woman again, knowing this, makes me want to strangle her.
I mean it all may not come to ever mean anything since M and I are going to either talk tonight or tomorrow night. That is still up in the air. I've asked him to take some time today after work, instead of tomorrow, but we'll see.
My girlfriend just really opened up my eyes in a lot of things last night and now all I really want to do is listen to what M has to say. All he's heard are my thoughts, but I still have not had a chance to listen to his.
So I guess the ticker is ticking down to our one on one. I just dont' know what to think anymore.
