Oh HC .... lol (graphic)

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Oh HC .... lol (graphic)
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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 2:34pm

Ok, how fast did you click to read after seeing "graphic"?? lol


SO ... I have to wonder if HC had some 2nd sense about the whole YBB thing this week. Not that I REALLY would have met YBB, but the thought crossed my mind more than once ... "what if?" ... (especially the email Sun AM from YBB saying he was in town till Wed & was hoping to hear Id change my mind - bad bad bad)

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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 3:45pm

Congrats on being more communicative!

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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 3:47pm

Everything sounds great.

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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 4:02pm

lol, dont worry, i give LOTS of non-verbal communication - summer sucks when the windows are open.


& i didnt mean twice in a day b/c of age, i meant just as an average. BUT, drinking at an older age (as it will w/ younger as well) will certainly put a kabosh on the guys erection usually. And, sorry, but yes, age plays a part in erections. Thats NOT to say that HC cant "do it" a couple times. He can. BUT, gone are the days like you are talking about. Why do you think at my old age,

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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 4:03pm
Yep - thats why the friskiness has begun i guess!
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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 4:18pm

I think a lot of drinking can keep it from happening, but I have found that just the right amount it perfect.

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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 4:27pm

You are right. If you mention "graphic", all of us women flock to it. LOL.


I'm so so sooo happy for you that your relationship has grown to this stage. It's such a wonderful part after you know that you two are perfect for each other.


That is hilarious about having to buy a new toy in Key West. Gosh, I'm so excited for you. You need this time away, and you will have a blast as a couple.

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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 4:29pm

Oh yeah, experience counts A LOT. And not just for the guy, it's us, too. I find I am more open, relaxed, and just less inhibited as I get older.
TM just makes my body sing, hence the Shazam comment right from that first time LOL And even though TM and M are exactly the same age (both born in Oct 57) they are way different on the ability to be ready for round 2 and general desire for sex. TM is a better match for my needs, he's the one who initiates for round 2, or even round 3. ;-) He knows how to wait, to hold back his own orgasm for me to peak first. Maybe it's all that testosterone/baldness thing.
So although all relationships slow down a bit over time, and both men and women also have a reduction in shall we say sexual performance as we age, there is always someone out there who will fit your needs. And one should not discount the value of emotional attachment. Even if the frequency might not always be what you might prefer, if the times you do have together are fulfilling, there is no problem.

QB

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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 7:59pm
Funny you should mention not bringing the toy in your carryon bag. I was reading a magazine (Redbook, not porn) and it had a column on embarrassing moments and there was that story. The woman was going through the line, the female TSA examiner didn't recognize what "it" was on the Xray, took it out of the bag & held it up and exclaimed loudly "what is this thing?" So the woman said to the agent "it's a vibrator & it's used for sexual gratification." So the agent just said "oh" and gave it back. But no, I wouldn't want that seen on the Xray.
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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 8:53pm

Oh yeah, i know some guys with TWO drinks & they are done for. HC, it just depends how much, & how much sleep he's had, how much sex (or mastrubation, lol) has gone on lately. He has a really high libido & will take care of himself daily, unless he knows Im coming over, he will "hold off for a couple days". Its been a running joke with us when I call & say "Ill be there in 2 days, can you keep your hands off yourself?!" or "Can you save some for ME?" lol


I do guess if a guy is quick to orgasm, a couple drinks could slow that down, so thats a good thing

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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 8:55pm

It is so nice to be in that comfortable "zone" ... be it sexually or whatever else.


We are both so excited about our trip

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