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| Sat, 05-24-2008 - 5:28pm |
Well I met a great guy...a new great guy. I feel like a giddy teenager over the whole thing! So silly! We had been talking and emailing and what not and finally he asked me out. I was NOT nervous at all about meeting him but he told me he was nervous to meet me! He said I am intimidating....I have no idea how I could be but...I can relate to the nervousness. We had a FABULOUS first date. We ended up at a local pub I like to go to and just laughed and talked. It was like we knew each other for EVER!
So we ended the date with a small kiss and went our seperate ways agreeing to a second date. Well the next morning he called and asked if I would go out with him after I got off work! ( I work second shift) So we met and had a late dinner and talked some more. He was so flattering and polite. We had a little disagreement over who was paying for what. I think it should be dutch..he thinks he should pay unless I invite him. UGh. But I did let him pay. So he asked me out for ANOTHER date! Wow!

This one sounds good!!
"he thinks he should pay unless I invite him"
He is right!
Keep us posted. Who is PT?
It may be that you just have to "next" him. But of course his reaction to your suggestion will tell you a lot. That is a difficult situation at best and you are doing him a favor and really if any of us were in the same boat we would want someone to tell us - but he may not see it that way!!
And some people just have strong body odor no matter what they do - we had a girl like that at work - she knew it and did her best but I think something was wrong to cause it in the first place. Fortunately none of that was my responsibility and so I never had to tell her. She was a single mom with a disabled child, whose husband left her and she worked the graveyard shift. I always felt sad for her. But HR got involved and gave her a lifetime supply of hotel soaps and shampoos to use - and she said she used them - but they made little difference.
And of course you can always put the shoe on the other foot. If you were a guy and went out with a girl that smelled, you would never call again. :-P