Oh Man, Allison is going to kick my butt
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Oh Man, Allison is going to kick my butt
| Wed, 10-24-2007 - 2:09pm |
Im sorry, Im sorry, Im sorry! I had to write ONE MORE TIME to X.
| Wed, 10-24-2007 - 2:09pm |
Im sorry, Im sorry, Im sorry! I had to write ONE MORE TIME to X.
I think it is closure and it is good and that you should keep a copy of it. What he does with it is his responsibility and his decision.
If I was you I would never give him access by himself. His anger is clearly very dangerous and I would fear that he could and would something very destructive with himself and her if given the chance - like the news stories we read. Be careful.
And no more contact now. I hate to say this but I believe he is beyond hope and help for a while. And I fear for you. I would stay away from him and avoid him at all costs. Avery will be fun with just you.
LOL- I just saw this post ;)
I think it's ok- you gave it one last shot at it, and copying the sister in is a good idea.
Rebecca, sorry you have to continually deal with such
Hang in there girl! I think you are doing a remarkable job. I'm with Alison I wouldn't discuss anything else with him..you've made things very clear. Also, as Judy said, be careful and definitely watch your back.
HUGS TO YOU AND AVERY
You know, I am with Alison on wanting to tell you to stop writing to him and trying to get him to understand, because I don't think he will EVER get it, no matter how clearly you state the facts to him. It's always going to be about HIM and no one else.
BUT... if anything good comes of these emails, is that it provides you with a buttload of proof to show just how unstable and irrational he is. It shows how you can calmly write out some things in a letter to him, and he just spews back nothing but vile and selfish comments. It simply offers documentation for you, should you need to show anything to a judge again.
It shows that you are STILL trying, although you have repeatedly been shown by him, that it's a futile effort. It shows that he is childish. And it shows that you are not keeping Averey from him- as in doing so in spite, just to get him angry. What you are doing, is keeping HIM away from Averey- to protect her from his anger and emotional abuse. And to me, there IS a difference there.
You have given him SOOO many chances to see his actions and how harmful they are to his relationship to his own daughter... but he just won't see it. Hugs to you for always trying anyway.
~shrimpy
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Yeah, I'm done. I said what i had to say & provided documentation to that effect. & receievd documentation back ... not so thrilled about the threat in there - I assume he means legally "what he has planned" ... hope so anyway. Yikes.
From him:
No -you are NUTS! i never ever said any of that. YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS MESSING HER UP. NOT