Oh my, I think I may be a cad
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Oh my, I think I may be a cad
| Tue, 05-13-2008 - 8:31am |
Ok..............I've been slamming at work, which is wonderful.
| Tue, 05-13-2008 - 8:31am |
Ok..............I've been slamming at work, which is wonderful.
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You're not a cad.
I think it is great that you are doing some evaluating and not running away from the inner voice. IMO it's
A cad?
You are not a CAD - you are putting you and your kid first.
To be honest - it would kill me if he picked helping mom EVERY Saturday instead of putting me first for a fun date. I mean you are a single mom supporting you and the kids - why should he want you to be the one to pony up the time?
I think he is looking for a mom and not a gf - the new one sounds quite good! All is fair in love and war - listen to your inner gut and what you write - it is very enlightening and I am happy to read that you don't feel bad and you don't know if you like him - GOOD! Shows you are a good woman with a life and not needy to be stuck in something bad just to have it.
Dating is a pain - it is a numbers game. Some find someone great soon - and others find it later. The important thing is to love yourself first so you settle with nothing less than the right one who will cherish you as much as you cherish him.
I found myself in your position a couple of weeks ago when Bikerguy and I were still "figuring things out".
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