Oh my, I think I may be a cad

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Oh my, I think I may be a cad
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Tue, 05-13-2008 - 8:31am

Ok..............I've been slamming at work, which is wonderful.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 8:52am
You are NOT a cad!!! Your 1st priority is

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 9:00am
You're not a cad, you are being honest.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 9:22am
You know I spent most of my adult life without that spark and chemistry.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 9:24am
No I don't want to lead him on or continue if this is the way its going to be.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 10:05am

You're not a cad.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 10:52am
I just need a few more days to think about this, why I chose to wait til Saturday.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 1:23pm

I think it is great that you are doing some evaluating and not running away from the inner voice. IMO it's

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2003
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 1:49pm

A cad?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 4:46pm

You are not a CAD - you are putting you and your kid first.

To be honest - it would kill me if he picked helping mom EVERY Saturday instead of putting me first for a fun date. I mean you are a single mom supporting you and the kids - why should he want you to be the one to pony up the time?

I think he is looking for a mom and not a gf - the new one sounds quite good! All is fair in love and war - listen to your inner gut and what you write - it is very enlightening and I am happy to read that you don't feel bad and you don't know if you like him - GOOD! Shows you are a good woman with a life and not needy to be stuck in something bad just to have it.

Dating is a pain - it is a numbers game. Some find someone great soon - and others find it later. The important thing is to love yourself first so you settle with nothing less than the right one who will cherish you as much as you cherish him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2005
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 6:23pm

I found myself in your position a couple of weeks ago when Bikerguy and I were still "figuring things out".

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