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| Tue, 10-18-2005 - 1:09am |
I'm so sick of all this tiring crap! lol! I guess it's not funny, but it is draining! They didn't kick him out of the class. He had a signed letter from the judge stating that he could be there b/c he was furthering his education. What a load of crap! Anyway, the instructor has informed me that he and his groupies in the class are not to speak to me whatsoever. He personally said that he didn't want my ex in his class b/c he knows his intentions. Of course I apologized for all this drama feeling like I have brought this upon myself in some ways.
I'm just so tired. I have to constantly watch my back, I'm constantly evaluating my life and the situations I'm in, and constantly worrying about my dd. I don't want her involved with these horrible people...and that's what they truly are. I pray, I try to be the person I need to be and who God wants me to be, but I can't help but feel bitter at some points. Maybe that's natural...who knows.
Kait

HI Kait,
I can almost feel the frustration coming off your keyboard. I know you are at a very bad time. But consider it like construction of a house - it is a mess now but will get much better because you are making good decisions.
I think you should do your best to totally ignore your exh and his gf in your classes. Since his intentions are not really to further his education, he is going to get bored of that pretty quick and then he will leave you alone. You are lucky to have the instructor there to back you up. Maybe the instructor would also be willing to write a letter if you need it later on?
The bright side is that your exh did get permission from the judge to attend the class. Although this is very crafty and seemingly not right, it does mean he somehow respects the RO because he did ask permission. He is learning his own way around what is going on with you setting boundaries.
Just keep doing what you are doing - working on the divorce and the child support/visitation, keeping the RO, bettering yourself through your education and sticking with your family for support. The dust will settle. Please have faith.
I am glad we can all be here for you. The others have been very supportive here and that is good. We are all rooting for you!!
I am so glad you have the RO now.
Kait,
((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))
He will get tired of it soon enough and leave you alone if you do not show him that you are bothered by him at all.