Oh Oh ... XH contact ...

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Oh Oh ... XH contact ...
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Tue, 12-18-2007 - 7:50am

After what? 3 weeks of him not calling at all - he just called & said "When are you going to let me see Averey?" I said "You need to contact Dr. K". He said "Why?" I said "Thats what I am told -its all up to him". He siad "So if i dont see him b4 Xmas, youre not going to let me see her?" I said "Its out of my hands - i am told you need to speak with Dr. K or your atty". He said "Email me his phone

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Registered: 08-10-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 8:24am

Sounds like you handled it well... hopefully there will be no backlash once he talks to the doctor and if there is it doesn't fall on you!


Angie

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 8:42am

How emotional was he?

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 8:50am
I doubt he realized it - i think he really doesnt know its STOPPED COMPLETELY. I think he is just thinking he has to see the psyc again to have visitation. His tone was quiet - sad. Not mean or anything. But Im sure THAT will change when he calls the guy after work tonite.

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Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 10:30am

Excellent job handling the situation!

3 weeks! After one week a normal person would have called to see what's going on and would be doing everything possible to see their child. Of course as we all know your X is not normal. Even though my X is borderline narcissistic(sp?) he calls his daughter every evening or at the least every other evening.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 11:00am
Uh oh - keep us posted.