Oh well, no Greece for ME! .....

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Oh well, no Greece for ME! .....
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Fri, 11-16-2007 - 12:10am
you guys wont know any famous girl here! Im FINE though ... a relief sort of , to be honest. Emotionally, but also, NOW i dont HAVE TO get skinny soon! lol Here is his email - cute, kind of hard to read .....

Hi!I am sorry for what happened i couldnt even imagine that you waited this time to hear from me in this regard. I have been on submarien this time & Before some time i took a course and i learned sailing.The crew of a sailing boat had a local race and i went there for a week to get the experience.It was great. I am sorry not worry for you to be waiting.Rebecca i dont want to dissapoint you-

In greece our culture about media is about 20 years back from you,here all the shows we had about these reunions became the laughter of the noon time shows where everything is very stupid. I am not saying this show of yours is like this here – but it is very not acceptable. Even though this is truth, I would consider this to see you again –but, the worse reason is my job. It would not be possible for this to be due to my carreer. I am an officer in the navy i teach in the naval academy technical issues,my reputation is strong and i am not used to expose my life even if it is something so beautifull as this. Neither would they let me. I would be never able to have specifcs times off for this or for this travel to see you. How tradjedy it would be if you were to come here for this reason & I had no choice but to be on submarine!!??? So bad this would be! We dont need anyone to help us see each other again.I imagine the day i will take thanos with me and we fly there to see you and ave.I am sure you are a kind of sad now,but please dont.Thanos has never seen a girlfriend of mine after my divorse do you imagine to tell him what he is going to see ?Maybe he will like it but he might not, i can not take the risk – even if my job would maybe agree, I don’t think it would be good for my son Thanos.I lknow you understand this issues of course beacuse you are very wonderful mother. These lives we have lived belongs to us only and they are preserved in the box with the nice and beautifull memories- i hate to feel that they could be removed to the box with the unpleasant experiences. What we had in our lifeteims between us is most special & lucky. I feel i think many times in the many years what my life be like if we stay together. But life has been ok. We were blessed to have our time. But still i always wonder "if?" i never leave you. Still, in fact, if i could do this foryou with my job i would but it is not to be. Kisses to you and ave! yours Spyros xo

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Fri, 11-16-2007 - 12:13am

Oh, how disappointing!


:-(


Soonee, sending you some of her private Russel Stovers stash (it's in the second drawer - shhh!)

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Fri, 11-16-2007 - 12:42am
Oh, Im really fine about it. I mean, my life *IS* complicated ENOUGH right now anyway! lol

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Fri, 11-16-2007 - 7:22am
Oh wow - I send chocolate too. But what he wrote was so sweet - he sounds like a great father and a wonderful guy and navy officer. I wish Greece was not so far away. He has to drive the submarine to RI! That is the solution!! LOL!!
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Registered: 09-21-2006
Fri, 11-16-2007 - 10:27am
Sorry it didn't work out. But you do have a great response from him. The cultural differences are enlightening. (hugs)
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Registered: 05-04-2005
Fri, 11-16-2007 - 12:15pm

Hi Rebecca,


I think his response was beautiful.

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Fri, 11-16-2007 - 2:06pm

~Pacific~
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Fri, 11-16-2007 - 9:12pm

Aw, bummer R!!! But how could you be sad over a response like that?!?? Even that "rejection" is still a very romantic letter! You can hear it in his voice that he wants to- but knows he can't. And yet... he's not sure if he'd want to anyway- because what you guys had was so special. He doesn't seem to want to relive it through some tv show- and knows that a show would cheapen it somehow (and we all know how well the media can do THAT). I think he is perfectly happy reliving it all through his own memories and wants to leave it that way. Dang, I do hope you can get together again some day.


~shrimpy

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"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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