ok to date more then one person?
Find a Conversation
ok to date more then one person?
| Tue, 04-15-2008 - 8:35am |
Hello,
since my last few crazy dates, I have been mingling and talking with like 4-5 guys. I was wondering what do you say if they ask you if you are seeing someone else? Do you tell them upfront that you are dating others as well.

Interesting that you would ask this.
I definitely recommend dating more than one person.
GREAT post - I agree with a full two thumbs up! Date a few until you find one that is worthy of exclusivity - and they have to do this over time - by making time for you, holding your interest, making phone calls and asking you out on a regular basis and being fun to be with - having mutual attraction.
I think three would be about right!
I think honesty is the best policy to let them know you ARE dating others... but you don't have to offer up the info until they ask.
In dating, I always go with the idea that the guy I'm dating is potentially dating others as well... I don't assume that he's ONLY seeing me.
Even if you're intimate?
Just dating is one thing and I would expect he was dating others as well.
If I decide to go further and allow myself to be intimate with him, then yes, that changes things and I would ask.
Hi,
I think that it is fine to date more than one person. I'm doing the same thing. Yes, I am upfront about telling guys that I date and flirt with other guys. I got tired of putting all my eggs in one basket also. I would get all emotionally attached to one guy and start getting sad if he didn't call/return my texts promptly, couldn't see me, etc. My inclination is to want to be in a committed relationship, sort of replacing the ex-husband, but I'm trying to enjoy being single and not jump into something serious so soon post-divorce.
Good luck with the dating situation.
I cant imagine why any woman ( or man) who cares if someone else is intimate with others while with them - WOULDNT ask prior - or at least right